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Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
21. Speaking of hoarders,
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 11:36 AM
Mar 2016

My mom was an incurable hoarder. She also got Alzheimers and was very irrational and nasty. She had trails through the junk in her house. She would not let me throw anything away. I was her only surviving child but her junk was more important than any family. I got sick from the filth when I went to see her and dad. They looked at me like they just could not figure out why i was vomiting uncontrollably with a sinus infection when they took me to the emergency room. I had to outlive her to wait to throw anything out. Most of the people on those hoarding shows have driven away their family. Their junk is more important than their kids and that is sad. I have sympathy for OP. I am not saying my situation is worse. Many things can cause irrational alienation.

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I'll probably step in it here, but I'm confused. Downwinder Mar 2016 #1
Mother son knowledgeispwr Mar 2016 #2
I had the same question. n/t angstlessk Mar 2016 #3
I'm sorry that your mom can't get past her beliefs. beam me up scottie Mar 2016 #4
I'm sorry edhopper Mar 2016 #5
I did ask her about a loving god... knowledgeispwr Mar 2016 #12
There is no solution to rabid religionism. Curmudgeoness Mar 2016 #6
I'm really sorry, and, someday I hope your mom will be too. mountain grammy Mar 2016 #7
You sound like my mother-in-law! knowledgeispwr Mar 2016 #10
Can you point out her hypocrisy by not following other Biblical passages? Arugula Latte Mar 2016 #8
The trouble is, they're not generally susceptible to logic. nt SusanCalvin Mar 2016 #9
I think you are right... knowledgeispwr Mar 2016 #11
I wish you the best possible. SusanCalvin Mar 2016 #14
I have no sage advice kdmorris Mar 2016 #13
Yep. Iggo Mar 2016 #15
It's sad. The bible has specific instructions to choose Jesus over family muriel_volestrangler Mar 2016 #16
Thanks. I've considered that... knowledgeispwr Mar 2016 #17
Sorry. Saw a similar story on TV last night... onager Mar 2016 #18
Speaking of hoarders, Manifestor_of_Light Mar 2016 #21
Funny how people can practically throw away others... knowledgeispwr Mar 2016 #23
Imagine nil desperandum Mar 2016 #19
Neat way to explain your non-belief to your mom. knowledgeispwr Mar 2016 #24
You are most welcome nil desperandum Mar 2016 #25
That stinks. progressoid Mar 2016 #20
Thanks! knowledgeispwr Mar 2016 #22
Remember..... AlbertCat Mar 2016 #26
If homosexuality was so taboo to Jesus RussBLib Mar 2016 #27
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