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onager

(9,356 posts)
5. Thanks. A more horrible local example...
Thu May 28, 2015, 08:31 AM
May 2015

TRIGGER WARNING: Completely depressing story about the (non) Power Of Prayer (tm).

This happened Here in Darkest East Jesus-Stan, just a few weeks ago.

A young couple having their first child. Seemed to be a normal pregnancy, then something went horribly wrong. Piecing together local gossip, I think the baby's brain stopped developing. Scans also showed the baby would be born with serious physical defects.

The couple were young and healthy, and every doctor who looked at their case told them they should abort and try again. That doesn't happen very often around here - where an anti-choice member of the state legislature recently torpedoed an abortion law because it wasn't anti-abortion enough to suit him personally.

But the parents were also staunch anti-abortion Fundies and would not hear of an abortion.

The only medical facility that could handle the difficult birth was about 300 miles away. So when the woman came to term, they went there.

Accompanied by a local preacher and his Intercessory Prayer Team! I know this preacher - he's a loudmouthed ex-jock fond of sports metaphors. So I can just imagine him rallying the I.P.T. with speeches about how they would produce a healthy Miracle Baby and Win This One For Jesus.

That didn't happen. The baby didn't survive birth.

I'm sure not gloating about this. I think it's a horrible thing for everyone involved. But I also suspect the parents are dealing with tons of unnecessary guilt right now, thanks to their religious beliefs.

Or as somebody once observed: "Religion - the only business where the customers blame themselves for product failure."

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I've never understood why "respect" for one's beliefs (or lack thereof) is ALWAYS one-way only. trotsky May 2015 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author Pacifist Patriot May 2015 #2
I have never felt called upon SusanCalvin May 2015 #8
This message was self-deleted by its author Pacifist Patriot May 2015 #3
Prayer chains for those missing in the flooding.. mountain grammy May 2015 #4
Thanks. A more horrible local example... onager May 2015 #5
Aw, but you'll make the Prayer People cwy! mr blur May 2015 #6
Without going into too much detail, I've experienced something similar Rob H. May 2015 #7
If someone came to my desk and started praying... awoke_in_2003 Jun 2015 #24
"Don't pray for my son. Send me money." beam me up scottie May 2015 #9
Well, why save a stupid atheist baby... onager May 2015 #10
That comment was from a DUer. beam me up scottie May 2015 #11
Thanks for that link, onager. Lars39 May 2015 #19
So much for the claim that religion makes people more compassionate Rob H. May 2015 #12
I noticed that too. beam me up scottie May 2015 #13
religion makes people more compassionate AlbertCat May 2015 #16
Holy shit, I didn't even know it was there. I avoid that group. PeaceNikki May 2015 #14
I wish I hadn't seen that. beam me up scottie May 2015 #15
Some people can't help but be assholes, even here at DU EvolveOrConvolve May 2015 #17
Unnecessary cruelty directed at a man asking for compassion from religious people. beam me up scottie May 2015 #18
The implication is so ridiculous --> "I'll pray to the same asshole that put you in this situation Arugula Latte Jun 2015 #20
Indeed...if there was a god, why would the child need any medical assistance? truebrit71 Jun 2015 #21
I feel that offering prayer as a token of support for another is simply just the one praying cleanhippie Jun 2015 #22
Bingo. Act_of_Reparation Jun 2015 #23
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