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Pendrench

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22. Thank you - he was a great guy.

Thu Oct 3, 2019, 09:34 PM

Oct 2019

The funny thing is, I don't think that I've cried once since he died.

It's not that I don't miss him - I do, every single day - but perhaps it's because I don't have any regrets.

He lived to a good age, other than the last several weeks he was in pretty good health and still mentally alert. We saw each other often (probably several times a week), and he was well loved and admired by family and friends.

In short, he had a very good life.

I wonder if tears will come when it gets closer to his birthday (November 29) or when we get closer to the holidays.

Perhaps, I guess I'll see.

Thank you again.

Tim

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My father died on June 18th of this year - he was just shy of 87. [View all] Pendrench Oct 2019 OP

No way of knowing. redwitch Oct 2019 #1

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My dad passed away in March. He was also 87 mn9driver Oct 2019 #3

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I believe that toward death, the person hovers between the two planes. woodsprite Oct 2019 #8

Hi woodsprite - thank you for sharing your story. Pendrench Oct 2019 #13

I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your father. littlemissmartypants Oct 2019 #10

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My dad was 69 MFM008 Oct 2019 #11

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thanks TIm MFM008 Oct 2019 #24

You're very welcome. Pendrench Oct 2019 #25

I have 'felt' ghosts since I was 8 yrs old. I have had visits from demigoddess Oct 2019 #12

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My grandmother was with my grandfather when he died in an institution applegrove Oct 2019 #17

Hi applegrove - thank you for sharing your story. Pendrench Oct 2019 #19

Vibes to you in your loss. applegrove Oct 2019 #20

Thank you - he was a great guy. Pendrench Oct 2019 #22

I cried all night the night my mom died. She had been sick for a while. applegrove Oct 2019 #23

Hi applegrove - You are correct, we all grieve differently, and I imagine that one day tears will Pendrench Oct 2019 #27

Hospice workers see this all the time and know that usually death is imminent. There are Karadeniz Oct 2019 #18

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Shortly before my sister lost her power of speech, she told me she heard our Dad talking to her Siwsan Oct 2019 #26

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I'm convinced I heard from my father, just after he died Siwsan Oct 2019 #32

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DMT Locrian Oct 2019 #31

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Excellent - thank you! Pendrench Oct 2019 #38

This is a very common phenomenon. MineralMan Oct 2019 #33

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I think it will be impossible to pin down what those phenomena MineralMan Oct 2019 #36

Pen: Bretton Garcia Oct 2019 #39

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Strong natural family bonds help most of us, mostly Bretton Garcia Oct 2019 #43

Though historical reference to actual exemplary fathers is useful too. Bretton Garcia Oct 2019 #44

Thank you for sharing your story, and your belief as to the meaning. guillaumeb Oct 2019 #41

Hi Guill - thank you for responding and for your kind words. Pendrench Oct 2019 #42

Gil: if the "creation"/ or nature explains most of life? Bretton Garcia Oct 2019 #45

Yes, many religions do anthropomorphize their experience. guillaumeb Oct 2019 #46

Yes. A manlike God is partly a familiar handle or reference for men. Bretton Garcia Oct 2019 #47