My 94-year-old parents had things to tell me this week.

[Wellstone ruled]

28. Oh boy how those words ring in my pea brain.

Had a bi-fold pamphlet one time that was a hand out to the Children and care givers of Persons whom spent their last days at a Home. It is the independence thing that is the most difficult to change with ones Parents. Have to say,it took several months to get my Parents to except the fact that there was services available to do the Shopping,cleaning,and the Laundry. This remember how my Mother in Law would go behind the Cleaning Lady and bitch because that ain't the way I fold clothes. We had a sit down with her Cleaning and Laundry helper,and when they came in to do their jobs,they would get the MIL involved,hey,it worked,within a few weeks,the MIL just got out of way and made sure the coffee was on and she could Visit with the Girls we they got done.

Sounds like you got a plan and that is all that counts.