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RiffRandell

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Thu Apr 18, 2013, 11:53 AM Apr 2013

Did we raise a sexist daughter? [View all]

I'm a stay at home Mom. It makes sense as all our family lives in NE and my husband's job requires some travel (and dongles) so it works out best for us.

Last night, she and I were having a conversation about what she wants to be when she grows up. She said "a Mom like you" (sweet--I'm far from perfect).

So I threw out suggestions like teacher, scientist, environmental stuff as she loves reading non-fiction books about space and wildlife.

She replies, "well, I thought about becoming a scientist, but if the Dad works I'm staying home."

I laughed my ass off.

She just turned 7, so she's got time to rethink things. I also reminded her that she would actually be "working" doing laundry, cooking, vacuuming...I must add as hard as my guy works he does really help around the house and loves to cook.

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Did we raise a sexist daughter? [View all] RiffRandell Apr 2013 OP
i have stayed at home. raised my family. taken care of our home environment. seabeyond Apr 2013 #1
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How is it sad? RiffRandell Apr 2013 #5
Patriarchy has no bearing on this whatsoever. In my experience, a stay-at-home mother pacalo Apr 2013 #49
Thank you pacalo. RiffRandell Apr 2013 #54
No problem, Riff. pacalo Apr 2013 #60
Just wanted to say... Behind the Aegis Apr 2013 #61
I think the same about you, BtA. pacalo Apr 2013 #62
I read everything else so came here to look at chatter, have to give you something snooper2 Apr 2013 #63
I know, right? opiate69 Apr 2013 #65
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Right now, her perceptions of motherhood, and of women in general, are all centered Aristus Apr 2013 #2
I feel the same way. RiffRandell Apr 2013 #6
Hey! Aristus Apr 2013 #10
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Tell me about it. RiffRandell Apr 2013 #9
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That is bad parenting. RiffRandell Apr 2013 #23
Nice post. nt Bonobo Apr 2013 #66
One of the problems I had with Southern authority RiffRandell Apr 2013 #38
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She is young libodem Apr 2013 #7
Thanks. RiffRandell Apr 2013 #19
She's only 7. HappyMe Apr 2013 #8
Thanks! RiffRandell Apr 2013 #20
Heh. I don't think so. lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #14
Funny! RiffRandell Apr 2013 #21
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I'm not agreeing with Warren just to agree with Warren RiffRandell Apr 2013 #22
I'm also interested in what the 'teaching moment' is. HappyMe Apr 2013 #25
Thanks HappyMe. RiffRandell Apr 2013 #26
As are you. HappyMe Apr 2013 #27
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Ah! Of course. HappyMe Apr 2013 #32
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Oh yeah! HappyMe Apr 2013 #34
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No. Sissyk Apr 2013 #16
Thanks...that's really nice. RiffRandell Apr 2013 #24
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Ah, that one. RiffRandell Apr 2013 #36
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Are you implying that a stay at home mother isn't a meaningful job? RiffRandell Apr 2013 #39
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Wow. RiffRandell Apr 2013 #42
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You brought up meaningful careers. RiffRandell Apr 2013 #44
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If you knew me in RL you would find out pretty damn quick I don't RiffRandell Apr 2013 #53
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I'm not advocating for you to be blocked nor do I believe you will. RiffRandell Apr 2013 #59
I think you are doing a wonderful job. Your answers were spot_on. In_The_Wind Apr 2013 #40
I tend not to filter my behavior through some sort of patriarchal conspiracy theorists' mindset Major Nikon Apr 2013 #45
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