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discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,566 posts)
8. Peace to you and respect.
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 12:06 PM
Oct 2012

Those women I've talked to say otherwise. Maybe they all coincidentally have a balance impairment. My recollection is 7 to 2 against wearing them. One of the two in favor was unable to not walk on her tiptoes due to her continuous wearing of heals. The other 7 females, with whom I have discussed the topic, hate them and won't wear them. There is nothing female about that. I happen to feel a tie of any style looks anywhere between foolish and pompous. I refuse to wear one unless I'm being paid to. I don't own one that I am aware of and haven't worn one in over 10 years. Also, IMHO, they look stupid.

Please, please do not take what you inferred as what I meant. For sure I did not imply a disservice to women. Many folks with all attributes of humanity will take measures to be attractive. My personal preferences should never, either for or against a style, decide what anyone I know should wear. It was my interest just to find out if there were others who also either actively disliked the look of heels or just found them neutral but unappealing. I am warned by my wife from time to time that I need to guard against being disconnected.

I find appealing the saying, "There is no man more free than the one who doesn't give a damn what society thinks of him."

Most people who make choices on style do it based on their own ideas. Please don't feel attacked as I respect everyone's right to make their own choices without consulting me or basing their decisions on my ideas. I do feel that most folks imprint their ideas somewhat unconsciously from advertising and the choices of piers.

Vive la différence

Is there anyone else that thinks... [View all] discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 OP
No, not me. HappyMe Oct 2012 #1
Good for you discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #3
I love the way women look in high heels... Upton Oct 2012 #2
Judging by society... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #4
There are a lot more important HappyMe Oct 2012 #5
High heels are uncomfortable for everyone at first, some just get used to it redqueen Oct 2012 #7
Peace to you and respect. discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #8
I knew a woman who always wore heels at work but changed into flats to drive home. milestogo Oct 2012 #39
I just don't like them :( n/t discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #40
High heals are key to any successful raid. opiate69 Oct 2012 #6
I'm mystified. discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #9
I`ll clarify, then... opiate69 Oct 2012 #10
The light... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #11
it`s all good... was just making a funny (or trying to) based on your typo... opiate69 Oct 2012 #12
yes discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #14
kidding aside, I like the way they look... opiate69 Oct 2012 #24
I do not like green eggs or heels... n/t discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #29
I think they do make women look sexier, but I encourage women not to wear them all the same. stevenleser Oct 2012 #13
It appears... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #15
Every man should have a pair or two. One_Life_To_Give Oct 2012 #16
no thanks discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #17
Chicken One_Life_To_Give Oct 2012 #18
I love chicken... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #19
I'm not going to pick an option LadyHawkAZ Oct 2012 #20
I understand... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #22
It's very steampunk Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #27
I love a lot of the steampunk clothes LadyHawkAZ Oct 2012 #37
Warby Parker has a dashing hifiguy Oct 2012 #46
Some women do look nice in heels. lumberjack_jeff Oct 2012 #21
Agreed :) n/t discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #23
Penis gourd Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #26
I think people should wear whatever the fuck they want. Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #25
Those are all high heeled boots. nt redqueen Oct 2012 #28
Very... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #31
High heeled boots, yes. Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #32
To further elaborate: Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #34
I can't see the second pic, it doesn't show up. redqueen Oct 2012 #35
Fair enough. I stand corrected. Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #38
Grateful Dead tennies. Now that hifiguy Oct 2012 #47
Boots are fine... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #30
Hoof heels Major Nikon Oct 2012 #45
This is the way to wear boots: hifiguy Oct 2012 #49
No, not ridiculous... ElboRuum Oct 2012 #33
IMHO... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #36
I prefer feet to be totally naked. ZenLefty Oct 2012 #41
I'm good with that. discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #43
I don't think they look ridiculous. Behind the Aegis Oct 2012 #42
These... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #44
Putting the boot in, are we? hifiguy Oct 2012 #48
You could say... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #50
Those aren't uncomfortable LadyHawkAZ Oct 2012 #51
No man really likes them, we just force women to wear them 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #52
Didn't get the memo. discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #53
It's seems like they take effort. limpyhobbler Oct 2012 #54
Effort yielding... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #55
So thats a "no" vote for heels. lumberjack_jeff Oct 2012 #56
LOL People should wear whatever they want. limpyhobbler Oct 2012 #57
Not me. caseymoz Oct 2012 #58
To each... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #59
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