"Entitlement" to sexual activity in the "patriarchy".

[caseymoz]

7. Your right

If it's entitlement, or if it's (as some insist) rape, why would the guy even pay her at all? I ask them to imagine this: what if a guy agrees to pay a prostitute for sex, they go to a hotel, and then he changes his mind, meaning there's no sex and no pay. Would she be relieved? Would she thank him for not "using" her?

Answer: no. She might be even-tempered about it, but she would most likely cuss him out of that room.

Unless the woman is enslaved or underage (and it's debatable how common that is), her choice has to respected as much as her sex partner's. If no means no, and everyone agrees it does, then yes means yes.