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Ilsa

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53. And Christ also taught not to judge, or

Sun Nov 2, 2025, 02:34 PM

Nov 2

the same strict judgment could be applied to her.

She can change. Her stress level is too high to work on her own compassion instead of regurgitating philosophy she was taught by family. She needs a break and a chance to work through what is correct for now as well as what works bdst for everyone in the very long term. She needs to see the history of perpetuating harshness and the lie that all successful people pull themselves up by their bootstraps. But right now she's too busy and too tired.

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Sociopath BeerBarrelPolka Nov 1 #1

Some amount of SNAP fraud (exaggerated) does not invalidate the need or benefit of SNAP payments. . . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Nov 1 #2

Isn't that always the case? They always worry that someone, or some few people,... the nelm Nov 1 #29

Chances are there isn't really a legit woman saying that shit. Klarkashton Nov 1 #3

Agree. MorbidButterflyTat Nov 2 #55

Much more likely some chud ass bastard saying "where is my free pozza' Klarkashton Nov 2 #56

I would not write off this particular woman. Irish_Dem Nov 1 #4

I hope for her sake and her children's sake BlueKota Nov 1 #5

Yes there may come a time when she learns this lesson. Irish_Dem Nov 1 #6

Despite your 40 years as a therapist SocialDemocrat61 Nov 1 #20

I agree with you regarding many cult members. Irish_Dem Nov 1 #24

Will you provide her free treatment? SocialDemocrat61 Nov 1 #35

You cannot request treatment for strangers. Irish_Dem Nov 1 #36

Exactly SocialDemocrat61 Nov 1 #38

I think her story is B.S. Prof. Toru Tanaka Nov 2 #54

Good, she can work three jobs - until she breaks down. That's "uniquely American"... haele Nov 1 #7

I bet you're right BlueKota Nov 1 #9

single mom of two is paying much lower taxes than others... that's her handout BlueWaveNeverEnd Nov 1 #8

Sadly too many believe right wing lies. BlueKota Nov 1 #10

Seems like Jesus was clear on feeding the hungry and welcoming your neighbors Nictuku Nov 1 #11

If she is Christian BlueKota Nov 1 #15

As a Catholic myself growing up BeerBarrelPolka Nov 1 #46

most of the "christians" I know are like her Skittles Nov 1 #47

And Christ also taught not to judge, or Ilsa Nov 2 #53

$10.00 to a 4 pack of Guinness..... 3Hotdogs Nov 1 #12

I think you're right. BlueKota Nov 1 #16

Don't tell nobody, but the way I figured it out..... ya see there's this photo of some poor slob and he's in a bad way. 3Hotdogs Nov 1 #44

So you either didn't need those supports or you were too stupid to get them IbogaProject Nov 1 #13

Also if she so resents them helping others BlueKota Nov 1 #18

Multiple choice question for miserable woman ( an easy one). twodogsbarking Nov 1 #14

She claimed in a response to someone who BlueKota Nov 1 #22

Thousands of hours listening to the likes of Rush Limbaugh is the problem with her -- and all MAGATS... /nt artemisia1 Nov 1 #17

He poisoned a lot of people's minds BlueKota Nov 1 #25

And if BeerBarrelPolka Nov 2 #48

This world has way too many assholes. spanone Nov 1 #19

Thank you! BlueKota Nov 1 #23

There but for the grace of... BidenRocks Nov 1 #21

Probably a troll Xipe Totec Nov 1 #26

3 jobs with kids, I hope not. Zackzzzz Nov 1 #39

It is possible that the author is, shall we say, lying about their own circumstances? Hekate Nov 1 #27

My stock reply: If you think they have it so easy and you so tough, would you be willing to trade places with them? Midnight Writer Nov 1 #28

"Trading Places" BidenRocks Nov 1 #34

Very great movie BeerBarrelPolka Nov 2 #49

Given that Repugs lie as easily as they breathe, what makes you believe her boot straps story? flashman13 Nov 1 #30

..or a miserable whining Kyle whathehell Nov 1 #33

Usually those people are making up hardship stories. Bread and Circuses Nov 1 #31

"Let them starve." -Random woman in the community page sakabatou Nov 1 #32

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What's wrong with them? Simple, they are assholes. cstanleytech Nov 1 #40

I am so sick of the "Me, Me, Me" shit!!!! hamsterjill Nov 1 #42

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Conservatism is selfishness. nt Hotler Nov 1 #45

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