my dad just passed. at 9:40 am today :( My two sisters are trying to challange my executorship..

[Blue_playwright]

39. I wish we knew you could do that ...

My husbands family lost their damn minds when his mother died. While she was dying his siblings made her change her will. Wanted to cut the adopted sibling out of the will entirely, did cut out another sibling they don’t approve of, moved her from one location to a nursing home without telling half the family then refusing to tell that half where she was, hub had to threaten their scuzzy lawyer to get the location. It’s insane. My hub deals with end of life issues at his job (VA) but his brother thinks he’s smarter and cut him out of her EOL decisions because we aren’t wealthy and therefore stupid (and so must be greedy). Yes, they are Republicans.

Then they just buried her ashes with her ex husband and not the one she spent the last 25 years of her life happily with. The ex was a child rapist, beat the crap outta her and their kids and she left him decades ago. But they both have this perfect family fantasy and this weird obsession of getting them back together.

Well they are together now. And we’ve lost half our family due to their flat out insanity.

Long story short. You are not alone. People lose their damn minds when parents die.

Whoa. Thread hijack. Guess I needed to get that out. Lol