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hunter

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24. I was living in Southern California and had a question I needed to ask a prominent U.C. Berkeley...
Mon May 11, 2015, 08:27 PM
May 2015

...scientist.

He hadn't answered my mail or phone messages. This was before most people, even scientists, knew what the internet was. I was on the internet, since 1979.

In my mind it was a VERY IMPORTANT question. Some aspects of my off-my-meds OCD can be very amusing.

So I drove up to Berkeley, sleeping in my car, found out his office hours, and we had a lovely long discussion. Office hours are lonely times for so many professors. He didn't realize I wasn't a student of his until he asked as I was leaving.

Amazingly he kept up our correspondence until I moved on to other obsessions.

A couple of days ago I was dropping off some stuff at a Goodwill Industries Blue Box. A semi-homeless woman I often see around came up and asked if she could look through the stuff, before I put it in the box. She took a life size garden squirrel sculpture. I hope whatever place she is officially sleeping, whenever she is not sleeping disguised as a pile of trash behind the supermarket, they let her keep it.

My own grandma was a retired welder and crazy bag lady who happened to own her own home and had a good pension. Unfortunately she became a danger to herself and others. She fought off the police and paramedics for several hours, kicking, hitting, biting, throwing things, and cussing. Naked.

OMG, at her worst my grandma could say things that could render a man permanently impotent. The court put her in a nursing home, but she never lasted long in nursing homes and often had to live with my parents. She was the direct instigator of the very worst weekend of my entire life.

At my own worst, I'm just a quarter of my grandma's intensity.

Unlike your Jeff maybe, or my grandma, I'm the mostly harmless quiet invisible sort.

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I have a cousin who has schizophrenia and a Doctorate. JimDandy Apr 2015 #1
Your option results in: chknltl Apr 2015 #3
Don't delete. You need answers. JimDandy Apr 2015 #6
Please show my response #13 to those psych professionals you mentioned. chknltl Apr 2015 #14
I have to one JimDandy Apr 2015 #17
Very cool. Thanks for this JimDandy n/t chknltl Apr 2015 #18
Is Jeff's drivers license proof to him that he is Downwinder Apr 2015 #2
We do not know why he wants things. chknltl Apr 2015 #5
Just a thought. Downwinder Apr 2015 #8
i wish i had an answer olddots Apr 2015 #4
FWIW I wasn't really seeking discussion about my brother chknltl Apr 2015 #7
So, are you any safer than Jeff or someone out there Downwinder Apr 2015 #9
Ouch, you strike a nerve here chknltl Apr 2015 #10
if the local cops know him mopinko Apr 2015 #11
You are in a really difficult situation and I feel for you. cbayer Apr 2015 #12
Most here are asking about Jeff, so I'll talk about him and our family chknltl Apr 2015 #13
Jeff is so very lucky to have you and your brother. cbayer Apr 2015 #15
Thanks, you understand now. chknltl Apr 2015 #16
the trailer idea sounds really good. cbayer Apr 2015 #19
Last week the Secretary of HUD announced that HUD was JimDandy Apr 2015 #20
I alerted Ron to this chknltl Apr 2015 #21
Is he a "good" driver? hunter May 2015 #22
I wouldn't know about his driving ability. chknltl May 2015 #23
I was living in Southern California and had a question I needed to ask a prominent U.C. Berkeley... hunter May 2015 #24
Jeff has his moments chknltl May 2015 #25
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