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chknltl

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16. Thanks, you understand now.
Thu Apr 30, 2015, 04:07 PM
Apr 2015

Re: Jeff.
He has expressed an interest in getting out of that community, he feels trapped there. Last month he wanted to move into a homeless habitat, (whatever that is) in downtown Tacoma. Ron drove him around Tacoma to the various shelters and service places in order for Jeff to discover on his own that no such place exists. Jeff has shown moderate interest in a VA shelter that he heard is somewhere on the VA hospital grounds at American Lake, we are checking into it. Jeff's latest plan is to have Ron buy him a small trailer and to have it parked next to my house. I am reluctant because I need my peace and as you now know I have my issues too but we may do just that. (I told Jeff I would go along with it and I will keep my word on that). Ron otoh wants to get that trailer for Jeff but instead he wants to put it on his own property. The idea is to have Jeff close so Ron can find a way to get Jeff to start taking the meds he needs.

As you now see, it is my own experience that set me to wonder about the larger societal needs. Currently, if someone like my brother Jeff or Jon was to be pulled over by a cop and cited or worse hauled off to jail, they would face the criminal process now in place. Jeff obviously shouldn't be out there on the road, one would expect that our judicial system would yank his license on the spot but folks like Jon could fall through the cracks. (I just now reflected on an incident Jon had and told me about 20 years ago, knowing now what I know about our illness: Jon ABSOLUTELY SHOULD NOT have a license!)

I don't have the answers either, I am only recently learning the questions that need asking. Although my own doctor is an angel, he paints a fairly bleak picture when it comes to our societal needs in regards to our mentally handicapped. I've also been directed to chat to NAMI by a fellow DUer, it's probably a good place for me to bring most of this stuff up.

It is very cool of you to be paying attention cbayer, thanks for that.

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I have a cousin who has schizophrenia and a Doctorate. JimDandy Apr 2015 #1
Your option results in: chknltl Apr 2015 #3
Don't delete. You need answers. JimDandy Apr 2015 #6
Please show my response #13 to those psych professionals you mentioned. chknltl Apr 2015 #14
I have to one JimDandy Apr 2015 #17
Very cool. Thanks for this JimDandy n/t chknltl Apr 2015 #18
Is Jeff's drivers license proof to him that he is Downwinder Apr 2015 #2
We do not know why he wants things. chknltl Apr 2015 #5
Just a thought. Downwinder Apr 2015 #8
i wish i had an answer olddots Apr 2015 #4
FWIW I wasn't really seeking discussion about my brother chknltl Apr 2015 #7
So, are you any safer than Jeff or someone out there Downwinder Apr 2015 #9
Ouch, you strike a nerve here chknltl Apr 2015 #10
if the local cops know him mopinko Apr 2015 #11
You are in a really difficult situation and I feel for you. cbayer Apr 2015 #12
Most here are asking about Jeff, so I'll talk about him and our family chknltl Apr 2015 #13
Jeff is so very lucky to have you and your brother. cbayer Apr 2015 #15
Thanks, you understand now. chknltl Apr 2015 #16
the trailer idea sounds really good. cbayer Apr 2015 #19
Last week the Secretary of HUD announced that HUD was JimDandy Apr 2015 #20
I alerted Ron to this chknltl Apr 2015 #21
Is he a "good" driver? hunter May 2015 #22
I wouldn't know about his driving ability. chknltl May 2015 #23
I was living in Southern California and had a question I needed to ask a prominent U.C. Berkeley... hunter May 2015 #24
Jeff has his moments chknltl May 2015 #25
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