Why we live alone--and what it means for the climate and our sense of community

[erronis]

2. It is impossible to simplify all these dynamics down into simple formulae.

I've spend about half of my adult years living with someone in close relationships, and the other half either solo or some loose shared arrangements.

When the non-solo times work well, they are very good and I think satisfactory for all parties. When they aren't working well, the stresses can easily outweigh the benefits.

I manage my current solo existence by getting out in the community and volunteering, participating as much as I want. In some ways I feel more socially engaged than being in a confining relationship.