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Loners

dweller

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7. You do realize this is the Loners forum ?

Reply to EnergizedLib (Original post)

Mon Mar 3, 2025, 11:30 PM

Mar 3

Then gird yourself to be there for the unseen future .

The only advice I could lend you is this : Find something , anything important to you other than this relationship , and plunge into it .
Let yourself be absorbed into a nurturing hobby or activity that totally accommodates your mind and heart and soul and only involves yourself.
You will find in short time you are fine to move on without the stress and difficulty you are currently struggling with , and can move on to better times .

Good luck, and I mean that .
When you are a loner it is up to you to be alone

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I'm not sure if she'll come back or not [View all] EnergizedLib Mar 3 OP

Change the locks if necessary.....block her getting through.....shes emotionally Karadeniz Mar 3 #1

Oh my Good Lord. She is T-O-X-I-C! I would take the gifts back for a refund then RUN. LoisB Mar 3 #2

Thank You both for your input and advice EnergizedLib Mar 3 #3

I was married to a malignant narcissist for TWENTY-THREE YEARS... buzzycrumbhunger Mar 3 #4

Well, thank you EnergizedLib Mar 3 #6

Don't doubt yourself buzzycrumbhunger Mar 4 #14

Do not, for any reason , see her again. If something of yours is at her house call it a loss. Pack up her stuff and Srkdqltr Mar 3 #5

You do realize this is the Loners forum ? dweller Mar 3 #7

I'm used to being a loner EnergizedLib Mar 3 #8

Your post is fine here , I didn't mean it as a criticism dweller Mar 3 #9

I don't want to be alone, that's the thing EnergizedLib Mar 3 #10

I presume younger than me. Most people are. usonian Mar 3 #11

Thank You EnergizedLib Mar 4 #12

You're most welcome! usonian Mar 4 #13

It's hard to convey everything in writing, so correct me if I'm wrong. It sounds as though the girlfriend pushed the WDLAL Mar 4 #15

A lot of it is political differences EnergizedLib Mar 4 #16

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