My evangelical cousin is at death's door.

[TigressDem]

84. Nothing works in all cases.

But for people who do find comfort in family and friends praying for them, separation of church and hate is also a good thing.

Carrying an umbrella isn't always helpful. It might not rain. The wind can rip it out of your hands. It might become a lightening rod.

BUT for the most part it works in a generally effective way.

Especially in hospice situations, the person dying can find comfort however they wish to get it.

Don't want to pray or be prayed over, great. That's your choice.

I wouldn't foist prayer on someone who didn't want it, but if they ask, I will do it.