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Aquaria

(1,076 posts)
18. Speak for yourself.
Sat Dec 28, 2019, 04:06 AM
Dec 2019

I’ve converted people to atheism.

I didn’t do it by dragging anyone to a science meeting or haranguing them. I just dropped little bombs in their arguments and minds that they couldn’t shake free of.

One guy, it started with him saying he’s Catholic, because if he did things that weren’t so great, he would be forgiven.

I simply asked, “Why do you need a third party involved in something you’re responsible for? If you can, seek forgiveness for a wrong you did with the person you wronged, and if they won’t forgive you then why not forgive yourself?”

So some of it I got from my Jewish heritage, but the rest is simply common sense.

Anyway, the Catholic came back to me a few months later, and said he couldn’t shake what I’d said, he kept going over and over it, and realized it was true: he didn’t need the church for forgiveness. And with that delusion shattered, he was starting to question what he needed them for at all.

With a few more little bombs dropped in a similar vein, he became an atheist in no time at all.

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Quite thought provoking. dewsgirl Sep 2019 #1
Indeed. calimary Sep 2019 #2
Yeah, it's a process Farmer-Rick Sep 2019 #3
That is so very true Ferrets are Cool Sep 2019 #4
I have found that you cannot convert anyone nor should you try... NeoGreen Sep 2019 #5
You are so right Gelliebeans Sep 2019 #11
Just makes sense dna80 Jan 2020 #22
Yep, you can only turn on the lights. Iggo Nov 2019 #17
Speak for yourself. Aquaria Dec 2019 #18
Will do, and if I may be so bold to ask... NeoGreen Dec 2019 #20
I remember the exact moment. needledriver Sep 2019 #6
Sounds like me. Aquaria Dec 2019 #19
Walking home with my parents after Easter services. yellerpup Sep 2019 #7
For me, that is such a strange perspective Boomer Sep 2019 #8
I agree totally Gelliebeans Sep 2019 #10
That's probably why I don't relate to the Atheist Movement Boomer Sep 2019 #12
Good Point. n/t Gelliebeans Sep 2019 #13
Organizing Atheists, is like herding cats. yortsed snacilbuper Oct 2019 #14
Non religious family but Gelliebeans Sep 2019 #9
The museum in Balboa park? Act_of_Reparation Oct 2019 #16
When I "rebelled" Piasladic Oct 2019 #15
preparation for marriage dna80 Jan 2020 #21
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