but think that it is NECESSARY for the vast majority of humans to have them. This seems to me to spring from an inherent arrogance that they are somehow "better" than everyone else, and this manifests itself as a patronizing attitude toward those "lesser" than they are. Baby needs its blankie! Of course we don't see babies, we see otherwise functional adults who are clinging to harmful ideas. It is the horrible "New" atheist who is actually treating everyone - believers and non-believers - as grownups. The "faitheist" can't have that, and certainly can't counter the arguments of atheism (since they accept those themselves), so the charge of "bigotry" is repeated.
Here's a good blog post about everyone's favorite faitheist, Chris Stedman:
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/hallq/2012/11/why-faitheist-chris-stedman-is-so-obnoxious/
...Im just going to focus on whats been posted in the excerpts from his new book, starting with a sentence from this excerpt that I had overlooked when I first read it: With divisive religious fundamentalism on the rise, reactionary atheism that fixates on making antireligious proclamations is creating even more division.
Now what is this saying? Antireligious proclamations calls up an image of rhetorical pomposity on the atheists part, but I dont think pomposity is a particular sin of popular atheism. That suggests all Stedman really means by the phrase making antireligious proclamations is saying things critical of religion.
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Whats going on here is just this: its not, contrary to what Stedman implies, that most atheists (or even most atheists that believers have contact with) are bad. Its that religious believers have prejudices about atheists that they want to justify, and if its convenient to acknowledge one atheist as the good atheist to better bash other atheists by contrast, theyll do that, even if theres no meaningful difference between their chosen token and the atheists theyre bashing. Ive seen Bertrand freaking Russell used in the good atheist role, for crying out loud! Russel! (For those who dont know, he once called religion a disease born of fear and as a source of untold misery to the human race.)