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In reply to the discussion: So I'm just curious [View all]

gelatinous cube

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13. Learn to notice the impossible
Thu Jun 25, 2015, 08:40 PM
Jun 2015

My father is an atheist and always has been, but he raised my sister on Santa Claus the Tooth Fairy, etc. But he only ever told us the stories, he never claimed they were true. Whenever I asked him if Santa was real, he asked me what I thought. He never gave me an answer, he made me find the truth for myself (note this was before I discovered Google).
This was probably one of the strongest lessons he has ever taught me, but he never had to explain: don't let other people tell you the truth when you are capable of finding the true answer on your own. This is what we should be teaching our children. Don't tell them what you think, no matter how valid it is, instead show them how to find the truth on their own.

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So I'm just curious [View all] iwillalwayswonderwhy Jun 2015 OP
I remember when I was a kid.... AlbertCat Jun 2015 #1
Santa no. Easter Bunny no. Tooth fairy? Warren Stupidity Jun 2015 #2
Heresy! n/t. bvf Jun 2015 #4
we taught our kids about Murry The Agent olddots Jun 2015 #3
My parents didn't have a chance Warpy Jun 2015 #5
We taught our kids the stories. trotsky Jun 2015 #6
Yes, all of it. I was raised by atheist parents who let us have that fun, so Arugula Latte Jun 2015 #7
Same here Stuckinthebush Jun 2015 #9
Exactly. Arugula Latte Jun 2015 #10
Yeah, me too. Harmless fun, good memories. mountain grammy Jun 2015 #11
same as we told fairy tales whatthehey Jun 2015 #8
there's no easter bunny? BlueJazz Jun 2015 #12
Learn to notice the impossible gelatinous cube Jun 2015 #13
Welcome to DU gelatinous cube! progressoid Jun 2015 #14
My wife was a bit aghast when I told my six year old that Santa wasn't real. AtheistCrusader Jun 2015 #15
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