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ellenrr

(3,864 posts)
5. I've had similar experiences...
Sun Mar 31, 2013, 06:42 AM
Mar 2013

and I think what makes me feel old are experiences like this.
Otherwise, I don't feel like my age is a big determinant of who I am.

You sound like you are ok with the treatment, which is your right to be. Me - I don't take it so lightly.

People ought to treat old folks like individuals - yes, some need help, and they should get it, but don't assume that everybody with gray (or white)hair is incapable...

When I was visiting my 84-yr old friend in the hospital, a physical therapy person walked in, and started talking to ME, referring to my friend in the 3rd person.

I was outraged.
True, it might turn out to be the case in some instances, but not in this, and certainly one should not assume this.

--I guess I am more touchy than the OP.

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I hear ya, my dear trof... CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #1
My Dear Peg: The hell I'm not old! trof Mar 2013 #3
Gee, that sounds familiar. DavidDvorkin Mar 2013 #4
I would have been a bit huffy DavidDvorkin Mar 2013 #2
I've had similar experiences... ellenrr Mar 2013 #5
You're a lot pipi_k Mar 2013 #6
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