Seniors

Boomer

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24. Only up to a point

Fri May 4, 2018, 09:31 PM

May 2018

There are indeed worse fates than dying. Living with unrelenting pain, withering away, watching the circle of your social life contract as family and friends die. The last year of my father-in-law's life was worse than "the alternative."

I don't particularly want to drop dead of a heart-attach any time soon, but I can think of far worse fates.

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Pisses me off when I can't do what I used to could. [View all] trof May 2018 OP

I SO agree! The hardest for me is to have to ask someone else to do little jobs like that. Frustratedlady May 2018 #1

Yep Lunabell May 2018 #2

"Getting old sux." Exactly when does that occur? elocs May 2018 #3

Nice try, but not very persuasive Boomer May 2018 #22

I hear you. This aging nonsense is not what I signed up for! nt procon May 2018 #4

I just got aged out of my apartment in Las Vegas pecosbob May 2018 #5

ouch trof May 2018 #58

Mac D very debillitating. Have Miz t set the screws and you drive them. . . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz May 2018 #6

Agreed. n/t Tarheel_Dem May 2018 #7

I know a guy, a WWII fighter pilot, Silver1 May 2018 #8

Badass roscoeroscoe May 2018 #55

Yes, badass. Silver1 May 2018 #60

You'd be very lucky to find a handyman that charged $20 an hour. Ya get what ya pay for. Augiedog May 2018 #9

Made it up the ladder okay. madamesilverspurs May 2018 #10

Yes, every day a new reminder of my diminished capabilities elfin May 2018 #11

Tried bpositive May 2018 #12

Been using threaders for years. n/t rzemanfl May 2018 #51

There's gotta be someone around. Neighbors? Church? High school helpers. I know it's hard FailureToCommunicate May 2018 #13

I saw this on TV recently and said to myself, "Oh shit, it gets worse?". BigmanPigman May 2018 #14

I agree with you, but not out loud. Growing old is not for the weak. marble falls May 2018 #15

I'm the words of the great Betty Davis: Zoonart May 2018 #28

She knew whereof she spoke. marble falls May 2018 #41

Reminds me of a line from a Leonard Cohen song: I hurt in places where I used to play Sampan May 2018 #16

I hear ya' llmart May 2018 #17

Really lillypaddle May 2018 #26

I keep several magnifying glasses stashed around the house.... Ferrets are Cool May 2018 #34

I her ya..........Everything Is so hard to open.... a kennedy May 2018 #37

Husband's grandmother used to say...Takes a steel stomach to live to be old! pioche4 May 2018 #18

Getting old sux? SCantiGOP May 2018 #19

Only up to a point Boomer May 2018 #24

I've lowered the bar lillypaddle May 2018 #31

I know the feeling Boomer May 2018 #52

Agree. Watched my 95 year old mother spend the last year of her life sinkingfeeling May 2018 #43

so much for the "golden years." demosincebirth May 2018 #20

The Golden Years Timewas May 2018 #35

Love this..... a kennedy May 2018 #38

For the record Timewas May 2018 #42

Oh my! Rebl2 May 2018 #21

Thank you for this......i try to remember. a kennedy May 2018 #39

Not shocked, just frustrated. trof May 2018 #59

Getting old is not for the faint at heart. TomSlick May 2018 #23

Yes, it's the "simple" things, isn't it? lillypaddle May 2018 #25

But we can VOTE! EOM elfin May 2018 #27

I remember when the idea Haggis for Breakfast May 2018 #29

Off topic lillypaddle May 2018 #32

Och, aye Haggis for Breakfast May 2018 #44

I hope you'll be on DU longer than a week lillypaddle May 2018 #50

I know....when in bed I feel pretty good...... a kennedy May 2018 #40

I used to get so aggravated Ohiogal May 2018 #30

The hardest thing for me is my mind thinks that I still Ferrets are Cool May 2018 #33

Heh. Try having Parkinson's. JayhawkSD May 2018 #46

Ditto Frances May 2018 #36

Omigod. I wish I could find a handyman who DID charge $20 an hour. JayhawkSD May 2018 #45

i got mini blinds eons ago. finally they stopped working, got twins & slapped them into old fittings pansypoo53219 May 2018 #47

We do have a senior citizens center here in South Grand, St. Louis MO... SWBTATTReg May 2018 #48

I'm sorry. LiberalLoner May 2018 #49

It's not the getting old that sucks, it the parts that WhiteTara May 2018 #53

I was a crabber back in the 80's SonofDonald May 2018 #54

Reminds me of the quote: Bayard May 2018 #56

My township has started a handyman program to help seniors for little money. greatauntoftriplets May 2018 #57