"I Found Condoms in My Son's Room. What Should I Do Now?"

[FBaggins]

10. Your son is having sex (or not) irrespective of whether or not you found condoms

The usefulness of "my house my rules" went out the window some time back for your child. If you're worried that he doesn't share your values, your actions only make it less likely that he will ever listen to you as a credible source.

All that condoms tell you is that he's thinking about having sex and he's at least willing to protect the two of them from an unwanted pregnancy, STDs, and/or abortion (if that too violates your values). If it's an unopened box... there's at least the possibility that nothing has happened yet and this is the perfect time to have an adult conversation.

Unfortunately... it sounds like he may be the only adult in the room.