My nephew has our family at the edge.

[Wellstone ruled]

10. Hopefully your stance holds.

Experience tells me different. Had to intervene with my Parents and that was forty years ago. Lot's if name calling and finger pointing,but,in the end we managed to make it work. Still today,couple Siblings still point fingers and blame,but what the hell,my life is better without the grief they refused to recognize ,even thought they themselves had to deal with Addict children of their own.