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tavalon

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30. They might ask if there are any new people

Wed Feb 1, 2012, 03:19 AM

Feb 2012

Raise your hand if you wish, don't if you don't want to. I'm speaking from Al Anon and CoDA meetings but I'm fairly sure most 12 step groups are pretty similar. Many people at meetings never say a thing but they keep coming back so I'm sure they must be getting something they need.

Edited to add: I can't remember a single meeting where the people weren't gentle and kind and they won't give advice, just kindness, understanding and support.

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I'm hoping this forum will help...because I could really use some. [View all] fujiyama Jan 2012 OP

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That simple mantra tavalon Feb 2012 #26

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I need to find a post that I once made addressing just this issue. Rhiannon12866 Jan 2012 #4

The power of the rooms tavalon Feb 2012 #28

if you can Old Codger Feb 2012 #33

I'm not disagreeing but with my crazy life and a dearth of CoDA meetings, which tavalon Feb 2012 #39

If Old Codger Feb 2012 #40

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Lurker here Vanje Jan 2012 #11

yes you can sit in the back and say nothing NMDemDist2 Jan 2012 #13

I've found peace in the meetings and I'm very shy cally Jan 2012 #14

I agree with Cally. Every meeting is different. Rhiannon12866 Jan 2012 #15

They might ask if there are any new people tavalon Feb 2012 #30

Me too Fujiyama Vanje Jan 2012 #12

Well just figured I'd check in again fujiyama Jan 2012 #16

Thanks so much for letting us know how you are! Rhiannon12866 Jan 2012 #17

I'm glad you checked back in and did not drink cally Jan 2012 #18

For most people, just stopping drinking doesn't stop the alcoholism tavalon Feb 2012 #31

Seems to me Old Codger Jan 2012 #19

No alcohol for a week Vanje Jan 2012 #20

congrats. Going without drinking is a big deal cally Jan 2012 #21

I totally agree with cally! Kudos to you! Rhiannon12866 Jan 2012 #22

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Thanks for the good wishes and good vibes. Vanje Jan 2012 #24

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