what Daniel Tosh "actually wanted."
What he actually said was, first, "Rape jokes are always funny" -a statement with which I assume most if not all rape survivors would disagree. And when a woman DID disagree, he responded by using the prospect, the image, the existence of rape to get her to shut up. How this is different from, say, threatening an African-American heckler with "a good old fashioned lynching" or a Jewish heckler with "how about a trip to the ovens?" I really can't see. Would you be equally complacent about somebody on stage saying, "Lynched black man jokes are always funny" or "gassed Jew jokes are always funny?"
I'll repeat: I don't give a good god damn if someone making such comments is liberal, conservative, Republican, Democrat, Stalinist, Social Democrat, Jehovah's Witness, atheist, recovering Unitarian, lapsed Whig or whatever. The comments are disgusting, and I would imagine downright frightening to most anyone who has ever been confronted by the reality of gang rape.
Really, it's not that complicated a point.