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22. It's not just being a working mom. It's being a working mom and a daughter and a partner and a...
Tue Jun 26, 2012, 05:38 PM
Jun 2012

I know how lucky I am to HAVE a job and children and a mom and a partner and a home. And I am very fortunate to be in good health. It's a balancing act, though. My kids are older now and don't require the exhausting physical day to day care that others have described here. I'd say that a lot of my stresses are emotional now. I'm handling a lot of responsibilities, but I struggle with anxiety. That's why I post on DU. It helps me relax.

I can't figure out what just happened to my kitchen ceiling light. It was fine this morning. This evening it is missing three of its five lightbulbs, each of which seem to have been broken off in their sockets. Some of the missing pieces are in a bowl on the dining room table, a mute message from younger son, who is staying with me. He is nowhere to be found - at work, I assume. The light fixture was a little too low and younger son is very tall, so I suspect that there was a collision, but that doesn't explain why the lightbulbs were broken off in their sockets. An effort to replace broken ones that failed?

These are the sorts of mysteries associated with having teenage sons. Fortunately I love boys and this kind of thing usually makes me laugh.

I only have fur babies. Neoma Jun 2012 #1
I only have fur babies too. Had endometriosis really bad, no babies. LiberalLoner Jun 2012 #11
Same here. Neoma Jun 2012 #13
Oh that sounds excruciating :( You poor thing! I hope the doctors can help you! LiberalLoner Jun 2012 #14
I've already had surgery. Neoma Jun 2012 #15
Keeping my fingers crossed it works! LiberalLoner Jun 2012 #17
Everyday is stressful abelenkpe Jun 2012 #2
Good God obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #3
Yeah I think a cat would be the way to go. abelenkpe Jun 2012 #7
I know, and they can't do a lot of stuff for themselves yet obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #8
I can sure relate to all that Whisp Jun 2012 #6
Michelle Obama said that? abelenkpe Jun 2012 #19
yes, she did. I'll see if I can find that for you. Whisp Jun 2012 #20
Post removed Post removed Jul 2012 #29
Interesting Hide in a reply to this post. Whisp Jul 2012 #31
I guess "Fundie trolls" can now be added to the list LadyHawkAZ Jul 2012 #32
rofl obamanut2012 Jul 2012 #33
compared to my working mom friends maddezmom Jun 2012 #4
Mine won't grow up and leave LiberalEsto Jun 2012 #5
My sister had something very similar happen with one of my nieces obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #9
have you tried an Al-Anon meeting? zazen Jun 2012 #10
LiberalEsto I hope things get better for you and your family. LiberalLoner Jun 2012 #12
so sorry you're going through all this with your children maddezmom Jun 2012 #16
((hugs)) that is rough. Starry Messenger Jun 2012 #18
Wow. I am sorry that you are going through that. yardwork Jun 2012 #21
i'm pretty sure barbtries Jul 2012 #30
It's not just being a working mom. It's being a working mom and a daughter and a partner and a... yardwork Jun 2012 #22
you're right maddezmom Jun 2012 #23
...HOA president, etc. Argh. yardwork Jun 2012 #24
I used to have a ceiling fan with lightbulbs noamnety Jul 2012 #26
A potato! That's a great idea. yardwork Jul 2012 #27
I don't know how I made it through those years noamnety Jul 2012 #25
.... yardwork Jul 2012 #28
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