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In reply to the discussion: Tough Guise: Violence, Media & the Crisis in Masculinity [View all]radicalliberal
(907 posts)I think we're in agreement here. I don't equate maschismo with true masculinity.
I once was acquainted with a white Texan of the World War II generation (the father of a childhood friend) who became a civil rights attorney in the early 1950s. I'd say he was cut from the same cloth as Sakharov and Wallenberg, among others. He and the members of his family received many death threats over the years. At one point he was even spied upon by Army Intelligence, even though he was one of the most patriotic persons I've ever met! A World War II Navy veteran who had seen his share of bloodshed, he was one of the toughest, most masculine men I've ever known. (Sadly, I suspect he felt ashamed of himself because he played a guitar instead of football in high school, which is truly ludicrous that he would feel that way about himself!) He passed away about ten years ago. Truly a man's man!
I agree with you about narrow boxes of either kind. Some guys are too large to fit inside them.
Lumberjack_jeff, I think you and I are in basic agreement about this sort of controversy.