Where are the photos about the beauty of fat men?

[Warren DeMontague]

6. True dat.

In answer to your OP, it seems to me that not only is there a double standard in some quarters about stuff like that, it's a sort of deliberate "fuck you, becuz teh mens deserve it" double standard. Which we see a lot of.

For instance,the blogs making fun of the sad sacks at OK Cupid- "nice guys" who think they "deserve" a relationship har har yuk yuk how pathetic yarrrrrr.

Like I said at the time, isn't the thought (or maybe misconception) that one "deserves" a relationship sort of central to the whole idea of a dating site, though?

Apparently these guys committed the cardinal sin of being ugly and thinking they could put themselves out there and THERRR MEN SO THERRR FAIR GAME. If someone pulled the same crap with women on a "fat acceptance" site who were asserting that they "deserved" a relationship with a man despite society's negative view of overweight people, heaven forfend anyone should critique what they're saying. Certainly when they do it it's not an "entitlement mentality", oh no.

But put the same sentiment in a 'dudebro''s mouth and yeah, it's open season.