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Warren DeMontague

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6. Someone must think I'm just made o free time, if I'm going to do the elaborate charade of pretending
Sun Oct 7, 2012, 04:37 PM
Oct 2012

to discuss things with... myself.

Although honestly, in 8+ years I've seen weirder shit around here than that.

Okay- yes, messy. Although in the situation I described above, I do think that the "father" who provided emotional and financial support for, say, 5 years DOES have a responsibility to the kid. An emotional responsibility, and a financial one. That's not to say it's not a fucked up situation- it is- but I would take issue with someone turning around and saying "you're not mine, bye" after all that time, to a 5 year old.

Not to say they wouldn't have a damn good reason to be upset, pissed off, feel betrayed, etc.

Which is why I think the "time limit" laws are in place, and why I think they make a certain degree of sense.

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I don't know if it is fringe or not. ElboRuum Oct 2012 #1
Is it me, or are there some kind of major gender battles going on in the UK that we don't have here? Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #2
I think in the US there is a lot of state-by-state variance 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #3
Here's the thing, though- I would take issue with "stuck". Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #4
If you choose to remain that is one thing 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #5
Someone must think I'm just made o free time, if I'm going to do the elaborate charade of pretending Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #6
I strongly disagree, the man should be released of any legal responability... he was decieved Hemp_is_good Oct 2012 #18
"I find the notion of women 'tricking men into financially supporting someone else's children'..." stevenleser Oct 2012 #8
I suspect many of those situations have more to do with infidelity and dishonesty than Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #9
I agree with you there, maybe I misunderstood. stevenleser Oct 2012 #10
and lies have a way of compounding upon themselves. Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #11
Interesting ruling regarding women who do this intentionally: 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #15
Yes it does happen just like that sometimes Major Nikon Oct 2012 #13
Yup, Sen. Walter Sobchak Oct 2012 #7
I'd like to see mandatory paternity tests.. MicaelS Oct 2012 #12
That would be interesting 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #14
Really? Why? Serious question. Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #16
Post removed Post removed Oct 2012 #17
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