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ElboRuum

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1. I don't know if it is fringe or not.
Sun Oct 7, 2012, 03:15 PM
Oct 2012

But I know that, as a general sentiment, I don't believe people should be forced to accept responsibilities that aren't theirs by any right or fact regardless of the positive or negative nature of that outcome.

If they choose to, that's fine. It may even be the better part of our nature to be able and willing to raise children despite the fact that they may not be ours. I mean, the piece suggests that 4 percent of men are unknowingly raising children that aren't theirs, but what I would find interesting is how many men are KNOWINGLY raising children that aren't theirs? Moreover, if that 4 percent knew, would they run away from the situation (vague implication throughout the article is that they would) or would this have no effect?

The undercurrent of this is a thick reapplication of the erroneous idea in some circles that given the opportunity, men will run away from their children. Men are craven, shiftless bums, or haven't you heard?

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I don't know if it is fringe or not. ElboRuum Oct 2012 #1
Is it me, or are there some kind of major gender battles going on in the UK that we don't have here? Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #2
I think in the US there is a lot of state-by-state variance 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #3
Here's the thing, though- I would take issue with "stuck". Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #4
If you choose to remain that is one thing 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #5
Someone must think I'm just made o free time, if I'm going to do the elaborate charade of pretending Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #6
I strongly disagree, the man should be released of any legal responability... he was decieved Hemp_is_good Oct 2012 #18
"I find the notion of women 'tricking men into financially supporting someone else's children'..." stevenleser Oct 2012 #8
I suspect many of those situations have more to do with infidelity and dishonesty than Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #9
I agree with you there, maybe I misunderstood. stevenleser Oct 2012 #10
and lies have a way of compounding upon themselves. Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #11
Interesting ruling regarding women who do this intentionally: 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #15
Yes it does happen just like that sometimes Major Nikon Oct 2012 #13
Yup, Sen. Walter Sobchak Oct 2012 #7
I'd like to see mandatory paternity tests.. MicaelS Oct 2012 #12
That would be interesting 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #14
Really? Why? Serious question. Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #16
Post removed Post removed Oct 2012 #17
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