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4th law of robotics

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Fri Sep 14, 2012, 12:36 PM Sep 2012

Gender based selection in the US now favors girls [View all]

How To Buy a Daughter
Choosing the sex of your baby has become a multimillion-dollar industry.

Megan Simpson always expected that she would be a mother to a daughter.
She had grown up in a family of four sisters. She liked sewing, baking, and doing hair and makeup. She hoped one day to share these interests with a little girl whom she could dress in pink.
Simpson, a labor and delivery nurse at a hospital north of Toronto, was surprised when her first child, born in 2002, was a boy. That’s okay, she thought. The next one will be a girl.
Except it wasn’t. Two years later, she gave birth to another boy.
Desperate for a baby girl, Simpson and her husband drove four hours to a fertility clinic in Michigan. Gender selection is illegal in Canada, which is why the couple turned to the United States. They paid $800 for a procedure that sorts sperm based on the assumption that sperm carrying a Y chromosome swim faster in a protein solution than sperm with an X chromosome do.
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Simpson was inseminated with the slower sperm that same day. Fifteen weeks later, she asked a colleague at the hospital to sneak in an after-hours ultrasound. The results felt like a brick landing on her stomach: another boy.
“I lay in bed and cried for weeks,” said Simpson, now 36, whose name has been changed to protect her privacy.
She took a job in the operating room so she would no longer have to work with women who were giving birth to girls.

http://www.slate.com/articles/health_and_science/medical_examiner/2012/09/sex_selection_in_babies_through_pgd_americans_are_paying_to_have_daughters_rather_than_sons_.single.html

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It's interesting that this practice has caught on here when it is usually associated with China or India. And that now it favors girls.

Personally I find the motivation for gender based selection to be unnerving but I am unwilling to put any limits on a person's reproductive choices.

/No agenda here. I just thought this was interesting, related to men's issues in some way, and thought people might enjoy reading the article.

//I really hope the boy referenced in this article never finds out that by "choosing" to be male he sent his mom in to a depression lasting many weeks. That can't be good for his self-esteem.

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The conclusions are unavoidable. lumberjack_jeff Sep 2012 #1
This does hurt the whole "male-privilege" argument 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #2
I don't like this sex selection practice. Pterodactyl Sep 2012 #3
Seems to me.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2012 #4
If it's simply a factor of the gender choosing preferring a child of the same sex 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #5
True. This leads down a dangerous path. Pterodactyl Sep 2012 #6
Two things: One, knowing a lot of actual, real-world parents, not the kind that exist in the, say, Warren DeMontague Sep 2012 #13
Then what explains the sex ratio in China? lumberjack_jeff Sep 2012 #7
Come on now.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2012 #10
Parents in the US prefer daughters. lumberjack_jeff Sep 2012 #11
Are you saying there wasn't a time.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2012 #12
I'm saying that in China, having daughters is STILL frowned upon. lumberjack_jeff Sep 2012 #17
Because.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2012 #19
There is no government imposition to not have female children in china 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #16
Well, whichever.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2012 #20
In that country boys are more valued for social and economic reasons 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #22
See, I disagree. Warren DeMontague Sep 2012 #14
I think there are enough now to make it noticeable ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2012 #18
I don't see it being a real problem. Warren DeMontague Sep 2012 #21
The linked article is bullshitty, short on any real data. Warren Stupidity Sep 2012 #8
Is the world of Gattaca just around the corner? ElboRuum Sep 2012 #9
Me watching that movie: "Marin Civic Center! W00t!" Warren DeMontague Sep 2012 #15
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