Women who think all men are rapists. Men who think women think all men are rapists.

[Warren DeMontague]

24. That's 4 reasons, one of which isn't exactly 'stopping' so much as switching it around.

Reason #1, sounds like you hooked up with a guy who was inconsiderate, or maybe extremely forgetful.

Reason #2, better communication beforehand could probably, hopefully weed out people who are into that sort of thing. I've been having sex for several decades, now, and not once in my life has it involved choking. Maybe I just didn't go to the right clubs, as a youngin, I don't know.

Reason #4, Yeah, obviously.

I wasn't saying there couldn't ever be a reason why anyone might want or need to stop sex, or that they shouldn't should such circumstances arise. Maybe I've been having good sex, communicative sex in a long-term relationship of one kind or another most of my adult life, but I just don't think it crops up that much the way most people do it. Certainly not enough to be deemed a "major issue".

Am I looking to have a debate with someone where I'm arguing (robot voice) YOU MUST NEVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES STOP THE SEX ACT ONCE IT HAS BEEN INITIATED, HU-MAN...




No, I'm not. Obviously, if someone wants or needs to stop sex while they're doing it, their partner should respect that.