Women who think all men are rapists. Men who think women think all men are rapists.

[Warren DeMontague]

16. What this all boils down to, more often than not, is an attempt to pathologize male sexuality.

Men who have started having sex generally want to keep doing it until they reach orgasm? Well, obviously, that's because they're rapists and "They Hate You!™

http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/category/men-hate-you/

In fact, further down in Twisty's classic rant

http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2011/07/18/a-bit-of-lighthearted-fun/

(Twisty can't STAND The "Pervocracy", BTW... which is also pro consensual BDSM and porn, which makes me wonder if the ideological purity source-checkers over at HoF aren't asleep at the switch, this week)

she goes on to say this:

in the sweaty throes, has never said to you, when you were ready to stop, “no, wait, I’m almost there.” Or you’ve never closed your eyes and thought of England because you knew you’d hurt his feelings if you said no.

Lucky you.

But maybe you have complied in such situations, only you don’t consider those little things “coercion.” Maybe you think you were just doin’ him a solid. Letting him use you as a toilet shows how much you love him.

Get that, ladies? If "Nigel", which of course is our code word for that icky man-being that women have mistakenly convinced themselves they're actually- yuk- attracted to- is having sex with you and you come first, and you don't immediately stop then and there and instead wait for him to also orgasm, you are letting him use you as a toilet.

But Wait. What were you using NIGEL as, when you came first?

Hmmmm.