Women still "can't have it all"? Have men EVER had it all?

[Warren DeMontague]

7. Im a "think outside the box" type of person, and so is my wife.

Thats one of the many reasons we are good together.

She has a couple female friends, however, mostly situated on the East Coast, who are in that "im getting older and why cant i find a man" thing... I dont get inolved except i know that a big part of the problem is, theyre not looking or a man, they are looking for a man*

*makes over $$$, advanced degree from ivy league or comprable university, not short, not bald, etc etc

I think too many people are worried about "how things look" as opposed to how THEY feel. I grew up on "follow your bliss" and i was never much inclined to give a shit what other people thought, so it seems weird to me. And I also notice that the people who get married for reasons like "this is the right person- $$$ or other superficial reasons" alone, those marriages fall apart.