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Big Blue Marble

(5,493 posts)
18. I am a CPA and do not recommend reverse mortgages.
Fri Oct 4, 2024, 12:33 PM
Oct 2024

The front end costs are closing costs not taxes. You will still be responsible for
your taxes and insurance though and falling into arrears will trigger foreclosure. You will receive a
portion of your equity and the mortgage holder will busily take the rest through
interest and fees.

The most important consideration in your decision is that you are giving up control of
your home. If you feel that a reverse mortgage is your best option, educate yourself
to make sure you understand the tricks and traps of obligating yourself to a reverse
mortgage.

https://www.investopedia.com/biggest-mistakes-reverse-mortgages-5225608
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DON'T deRien Oct 2024 #1
The bank owns the home afterward. Doesn't it? LuvLoogie Oct 2024 #2
We are in our 80s and hubby is handicapped. No, we don't have accommodations for renting a room. CTyankee Oct 2024 #4
Be careful. They can turn out to be expensive. Here's some info from the FTC: Ocelot II Oct 2024 #3
Folksy Tom zselleck is punchable XanaDUer2 Oct 2024 #5
Yes, he is. My tax guy is not; he's solid and can give me good advice. I don't think we are his first clients who have CTyankee Oct 2024 #6
Better to claudette Oct 2024 #7
Don't do it. Our neighbor did and regretted it later. OLDMDDEM Oct 2024 #8
why did they regret it? CTyankee Oct 2024 #9
The money he borrowed accumulated interest to the point where there was no equity in the house. He died and left OLDMDDEM Oct 2024 #10
We don't have kids from this marriage. Neither his nor my kids would even want it and would consider it to be a pain in CTyankee Oct 2024 #12
I understand your points. There are up front fees also. My neighbor's fees were about 15% of the borrowed amount. OLDMDDEM Oct 2024 #13
That seems like a lot. I don't know CT's tax in my case. Again, a question for my accountant who is very familiar with CTyankee Oct 2024 #14
I agree. Talk with your professional about it. Good luck. OLDMDDEM Oct 2024 #15
I am a CPA and do not recommend reverse mortgages. Big Blue Marble Oct 2024 #18
Doesn't sound so bad. louis-t Oct 2024 #30
Beware: President Reagan was behind it! Omnipresent Oct 2024 #11
Yes, reverse mortgages are part of the array of strategies by the wealthy Big Blue Marble Oct 2024 #19
Trickle Up. (n/t) Iggo Oct 2024 #42
I looked into one a few years back and found the terms just horrible. gristy Oct 2024 #16
My 1st choice would be, if you have the funds, pay off the mortgage. Fla Dem Oct 2024 #17
The key thiing here is that we get to stay in our house. The escrow amount just went up A LOT. CTyankee Oct 2024 #20
Escrow should be for taxes and insurance PennRalphie Oct 2024 #21
I am going to the bank that holds our mortgage to discuss this with them. They might have an idea for us. CTyankee Oct 2024 #22
Good luck! PennRalphie Oct 2024 #27
If you've owned your house for 25 years, it must be worth a whole lot more than you paid for it! Vinca Oct 2024 #23
We did consider it but we love our home and want to stay in it for as long as we can. CTyankee Oct 2024 #25
mom has one Kali999 Oct 2024 #24
I have not done it, but I am extremely suspicious. Do your research. Depending on your state, you may be.. surfered Oct 2024 #26
If you run the numbers they aren't as predatory as they might seem (assuming the bank is reputable) Shermann Oct 2024 #28
Reverse mortgages are not terrible if you can get over some psychological hurdles MaryMagdaline Oct 2024 #29
Not sure why I would even care about dying broke. CTyankee Oct 2024 #36
Your kids do not inherit your debt Lulu KC Oct 2024 #37
I don't know if they have changed since I did mortgages but I did not recommend them to any clients. Bev54 Oct 2024 #31
It depends on your own situation. BlueinUtah Oct 2024 #32
Thank you! CTyankee Oct 2024 #33
Happy to help BlueinUtah Oct 2024 #34
I haven't had my call with my tax preparer yet (it's tomorrow) so I'll have good info from him. CTyankee Oct 2024 #35
Have you looked into refinancing? Lulu KC Oct 2024 #38
Thanks. I"ll review the possibilities with them, I am sure. CTyankee Oct 2024 #39
Sometimes Lulu KC Oct 2024 #40
Don't feel guilty BlueinUtah Oct 2024 #41
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