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tanyev

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4. Early 90s, newly married, my then husband and I moved 200 miles away from the city
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 06:37 PM
Nov 20

where his mother lived so he could attend graduate school. His mother was wealthy enough to help us out, and did. It took me a few months to find a job—I really was trying. She was getting concerned and pushed us (me) to go apply for food stamps. I’m sure her understanding of food stamps was that all I had to do was stroll in and say “No job, stamps plz?” and walk out with enough to go on a shopping spree at the grocery store.

I didn’t even make it past the first questionnaire in the lobby. They politely explained that our two cars were new enough that we would not qualify. I thanked them and left, feeling a bit embarrassed. But at least I was able to definitively tell the MIL that we weren’t eligible so she had to stop bringing it up. And not too long after that I finally did get a job, which made her feel better.

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