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Alice11111

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38. I have a wealthy bro like that. Seems like Jesus has
Tue Mar 7, 2017, 09:34 PM
Mar 2017

to be mentioned in every family email. He wears a red wrist band, actually a few of different colors. I asked him what it meant (I thought it was a sports thing), it was a Jesus thing.

He and his wife have open carry permits. They live in Texas; I don't. He carries a pistol in his briefcase, even though he has a smart, very curious 9 year old daughter. He has a lot of guns. I worry about my niece. She likes to pull me away and tell me her secrets. She mentioned someone having a gun at a party. Of course, I told her to leave immediately and call an adult. She also tells me what they say about me...hurtsher feelings. They basically think anyone but RWs are a threat to their daughter, and voting for Hillary or Obama is left wing crazy, un Christian.
Guess Im guilty, because that stuff makes me ashamed to
be.
I love my niece dearly, but bro has blocked my having a relationship with her.She would get their phone and call occasionally...and say, they are in the bedroom or something...but I got the message. I'm trying to get over it.

They didn't think my daughter's beautiful wedding was Christian. Lovely, large outdoor wedding. Lots of diversity. She's actually Methodist, but sees no need to wear neon signs. Married, kids, a doctor, but not Christian enough for them. It is the Dem thing. I don't like them, and they don't like me. The difference is RW are malicious, and we rarely are. DT has already exacerbated our family divides.

The hypocrisy drives me so crazy, all of the jesus and gun talk with a few laughs at someone's implied racist remark, just makes me sick. They are so dumb (even though both these guys and wives are corporate presidents), that they don't even know their remarks are racists, or maybe they do it to taunt me. Disrespectful, at the least. We even had a Palestinian Muslim at the dinner table. It is so awful to raise a little girl in that environment. When my child was growing up, we would leave and state the reason, for those sorts of remarks. Hopefully, someday the little girl will overcome it. For many of us, it never took anyway. I think I see it taking though, with all of the money and private schools.

Very odd that with very similar backgrounds, my brother, is totally opposite. He went one way, and I went the other. Some relatives, friends, and books influenced me, and others influenced him. Flumoxed
Sorry...got wound up.

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My embarassment started November 9th. First words out of my mouth Norbert9 Mar 2017 #1
Actually, I am proud of our internationally noted resistance via humor and FACTS. EOM elfin Mar 2017 #2
AMEN to that. BigDemVoter Mar 2017 #3
I think it is kind of like having kids or family Zing Zing Zingbah Mar 2017 #4
American Underground. Rex Mar 2017 #5
Every single country has its fair share of ignorant hateful degenerates, just not all of AuntPatsy Mar 2017 #6
I am seeing more and more people that voted for Trump Blue_true Mar 2017 #24
The world doesn't see it that way. I read Mexican Alice11111 Mar 2017 #29
Everybody's a critic, perhaps Mexico and others held down by criminal elements behind AuntPatsy Mar 2017 #37
Embarrassment equals Patriotism. NurseJackie Mar 2017 #7
!!! Alice11111 Mar 2017 #30
I'm more embarrassed of Americans than I am of America Mr. Ected Mar 2017 #8
Good point! tecelote Mar 2017 #13
Exactly. To hell with them all. They have already hurt many people, that enrages me. nt Blue_true Mar 2017 #27
I've been embarrassed since the 2000 debacle MotorCityMan Mar 2017 #9
Same here. It started with the 2000 sElection. trof Mar 2017 #20
Mine had diminished. Now, just ashamed. Alice11111 Mar 2017 #31
The voters put a complete lunatic in the driver's seat. lpbk2713 Mar 2017 #10
Remember that old movie with the puppets called "Team America" kimbutgar Mar 2017 #11
I'm sure your friends don't criticize "you" Ezior Mar 2017 #12
i am too of my fellow dems who allowed this Ohioblue22 Mar 2017 #14
I no longer consider defacto7 Mar 2017 #15
Every time I see a post like this, I think it's unhelpful hyperbole. randome Mar 2017 #16
I loathe what I see them all doing, and I feel ashamed that it's happening. davsand Mar 2017 #17
I don't recognize this America... Freedomofspeech Mar 2017 #18
...but they are so Christian Alice11111 Mar 2017 #32
These so called Christians are the worst. Freedomofspeech Mar 2017 #33
I have a wealthy bro like that. Seems like Jesus has Alice11111 Mar 2017 #38
I understand your frustration... Freedomofspeech Mar 2017 #39
It's my niece mostly, some my mom and aunt, the rest are gone Alice11111 Mar 2017 #40
The Republican Party is allowing us to be ruled by some seriously disturbed individuals. VOX Mar 2017 #19
This is not the America I grew up with. Initech Mar 2017 #21
I want my country back. And damned soon. (nt) Paladin Mar 2017 #22
Defend America by standing up for the best principles Blue_true Mar 2017 #23
Agree 100% SharonClark Mar 2017 #34
"This country is stupid" is a common thought these days. butdiduvote Mar 2017 #25
You're not alone, tecelote. democrank Mar 2017 #26
Be ashamed perhaps of the minority who voted for Trump. guillaumeb Mar 2017 #28
Get new friends who will work with you to oppose Trump SharonClark Mar 2017 #35
Our country will survive this lunatica Mar 2017 #36
yes, it is an embarrassment Kimchijeon Mar 2017 #41
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