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In reply to the discussion: 2014 Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issue Revealed. [View all]Kelvin Mace
(17,469 posts)Years ago as a teen, I got angry over a repeated accusation against me, holding forth at great length and in great detail about the unfairness of the accusation. One day, while in high dudgeon, I turned and made this speech to a respected third party and wound it up with "Wouldn't you agree?"
He looked at me and in a complete deadpan said, "I agree the truth must hurt."
I was sandbagged. I wanted to blow up, but the reality of the situation struck me dumb.
He was right. What I was accused of did hurt, because in the back of my ind I knew it to be true. It hurt so much that I denied it, made excuses for it and never bothered to entertain the fact that the criticism might have merit.
I decided from that day on to always listen to criticism and ALWAYS ask myself the question "Is it true?" in the quiet of the night. And to be brutally honest with the answer.