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In reply to the discussion: 2014 Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issue Revealed. [View all]The Straight Story
(48,121 posts)Recently in a Nerd group on FB I am in I posted a pic of Sam Winchester without his shirt on because he seemed a popular choice amongst the ladies posting there.
They seemed to like it and I didn't find their liking of it sexist at all. He is a handsome guy with a nice body in a popular tv show.
MAYBE it was because I thought they were not idiots and realized that not all men looked like that, maybe it was because I don't have a problem with people finding some more attractive than others (had I posted my own pic without a shirt I would have laughed at it myself).
SI has tons of covers with men on it. Once a year, at least, they have some women on it. Women who like their bodies, wanted to pose for the camera, and realize that just because men like them more than they like other men they are not sexist dogs who hate women.
When you see everything as misogyny (hatred of women) nothing people do will convince you that people don't hate women and want to keep them down.
I posted this yesterday:
http://election.democraticunderground.com/10024496533
Didn't see much response of course.