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In reply to the discussion: Mom Says The R-Word Is OK Because It's In The Dictionary [View all]prodigitalson
(3,044 posts)33. retarded is really the biggest one in my lifetime, but that's because I have worked with people with learning
disabilities, as both a classroom teacher and when I was younger for what was then The Department of Mental Health and Mental Retardation. Way before that (I worked there in the 80s and 90s), Idiot (IQ below 25), Imbecile (IQ 26-50) and Moron (51-70) were actual medical terms according to Chat GPT. In the 80s we referred to people roughly in those three categories as severely, moderatley and mildly retarded. I have no doubt that within my children's lifetimes they will cringe when they see old videos of me casually tossing around cruel insults like "intellectual disability" or "developmental delay."
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The n-word and the the f-bomb are also in most unabridged dictionaries, along with assorted other slurs and profanity.
Eugene
Nov 2024
#2
Imagine being this woman's kid...it was probably the kid who asked her to stop saying it
Prairie Gates
Nov 2024
#7
This is why the mental health profession has to keep re-naming disorders and conditions.
Irish_Dem
Nov 2024
#9
retarded is really the biggest one in my lifetime, but that's because I have worked with people with learning
prodigitalson
Nov 2024
#33
Was once looking up a word in one of the huge unabridged dictionaries -- one that's
allegorical oracle
Nov 2024
#10
What decent person would care about the etymology of a word that has become a slur?
Swede
Nov 2024
#13
Sure, she has a Constitutional right to use it. And other people have the same right
Ocelot II
Nov 2024
#15
Well, if you ever visit NYC there are some wonderful Liberal Christian churches here.
electric_blue68
Nov 2024
#34
The word "douche" is also in the dictionary though dickbag probably isn't.
yellowcanine
Nov 2024
#29