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wnylib

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10. Works well with my cat.

Reply to packman (Original post)

Tue Nov 22, 2022, 01:23 PM

Nov 2022

When I learned about it, I used the blinks to signal friendship and no hostility to her during some of our power struggles with each other over house rules. She would calm down and blink back at me.

Then she started using the blinks to get away with things. I kid you not. She would grab something forbidden or knock something to the floor. When I reacted with annoyance, she blinked at me. "C'mon, mom. Still friends, right?"

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Scientists Confirm You Can Communicate With Your Cat by Blinking Very Slowly [View all] packman Nov 2022 OP

Absolutely - I do it with my dogs too! NewHendoLib Nov 2022 #1

Open mouth smile Marthe48 Nov 2022 #6

Me too but I don't use my eyes StClone Nov 2022 #8

I do this with cats, especially ones I don't know nuxvomica Nov 2022 #2

All cat ppl understand second only to food, the slow blink is universal cat language PortTack Nov 2022 #3

Those are kissy faces. I kiss my cats from across the room and they always kiss back. Deb Nov 2022 #4

My cats trained me well. They taught me this early on. chowder66 Nov 2022 #5

I was told that here wryter2000 Nov 2022 #7

My roommate's rescue cat hated me 'till I did this. Ligyron Nov 2022 #9

Works well with my cat. wnylib Nov 2022 #10

And mine! calimary Nov 2022 #14

I discovered it in an online video about cat behavior. wnylib Nov 2022 #18

Maybe it's just tapping into old instincts. calimary Nov 2022 #20

The hypothesis is that it's an acknowledgment that you're neither predator nor prey, but equal. TygrBright Nov 2022 #11

If you die, they will consider you to be food. Kaleva Nov 2022 #19

I tell my girl that I love her all the time and she says it back - with the slow blink. keopeli Nov 2022 #12

... Sky Jewels Nov 2022 #16

When I do this with my cat... NNadir Nov 2022 #13

I figured this out decades ago, when I was a toddler. Sky Jewels Nov 2022 #15

Was this not known? Sympthsical Nov 2022 #17