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Phentex

(16,476 posts)
Wed Oct 21, 2015, 09:08 AM Oct 2015

People who talk too slowly drive me crazy...

I work hard at not interrupting anyone but when someone is pausing between every other word I almost can't stand it. I find myself finishing their sentences. Sometimes out loud.

Anyone else feel this way?

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zalinda

(5,621 posts)
1. You are better than I am
Wed Oct 21, 2015, 10:21 AM
Oct 2015

I used to interrupt and tell them to spit it out or get to the point or I'd wave my arm in circles and say 'and.......'. I had/have poor impulse control too.

I've been taking Adderall for awhile now, and I'm much more tolerant, but I haven't run into one of those type of people in a while, so I don't know how I'll react now.

Z

Phentex

(16,476 posts)
4. I work with her and love her dearly...
Wed Oct 21, 2015, 12:01 PM
Oct 2015

but listening to her tell me about her weekend is painful.

meow2u3

(24,913 posts)
5. When people pause between every other word, I think they've stopped speaking
Sat Oct 24, 2015, 03:39 PM
Oct 2015

Then they get mad at me for interrupting when I honestly believe it was my turn to speak.

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Maraya1969

(22,981 posts)
7. People who talk non-stop also make me crazy. I want to say something after they get their first
Wed Feb 24, 2016, 12:36 PM
Feb 2016

story out but then they just lead right into a second one and on and on and then I completely forget what I was going to say and I'm lost in a jumble of their words.

I have to say, "Stop, stop stop" sometimes. Because I feel like I am going to jump out of my skin.

But I have also watched Youtube videos and if they spend too much, (or any) time telling you wat you need to have to do l project I just go to the next one. I look for the shortest video to watch.

Phentex

(16,476 posts)
8. There has to be a happy medium...
Wed Feb 24, 2016, 01:58 PM
Feb 2016

otherwise it's not really a conversation.

Sometimes my sister will call and say, "I just have to get this out, so let me vent." And I understand that the call is going to be one sided. I'm okay with that.

Maraya1969

(22,981 posts)
9. That is fine. I'm talking about someone who tells a story about something or other and then tells
Wed Feb 24, 2016, 02:39 PM
Feb 2016

a related story and than another related story. Like a waterfall of words.

If someone needs help I will listen for sure. But even then I learned in Recovery Inc that you should only listen for 5 minutes because then the person is just complaining!

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