ADD/ADHD
Related: About this forumPeople who talk too slowly drive me crazy...
I work hard at not interrupting anyone but when someone is pausing between every other word I almost can't stand it. I find myself finishing their sentences. Sometimes out loud.
Anyone else feel this way?
zalinda
(5,621 posts)I used to interrupt and tell them to spit it out or get to the point or I'd wave my arm in circles and say 'and.......'. I had/have poor impulse control too.
I've been taking Adderall for awhile now, and I'm much more tolerant, but I haven't run into one of those type of people in a while, so I don't know how I'll react now.
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Phentex
(16,753 posts)but listening to her tell me about her weekend is painful.
Downwinder
(12,869 posts)speech.
Phentex
(16,753 posts)slow as molasses is another.
meow2u3
(25,251 posts)Then they get mad at me for interrupting when I honestly believe it was my turn to speak.
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Maraya1969
(23,564 posts)story out but then they just lead right into a second one and on and on and then I completely forget what I was going to say and I'm lost in a jumble of their words.
I have to say, "Stop, stop stop" sometimes. Because I feel like I am going to jump out of my skin.
But I have also watched Youtube videos and if they spend too much, (or any) time telling you wat you need to have to do l project I just go to the next one. I look for the shortest video to watch.
Phentex
(16,753 posts)otherwise it's not really a conversation.
Sometimes my sister will call and say, "I just have to get this out, so let me vent." And I understand that the call is going to be one sided. I'm okay with that.
Maraya1969
(23,564 posts)a related story and than another related story. Like a waterfall of words.
If someone needs help I will listen for sure. But even then I learned in Recovery Inc that you should only listen for 5 minutes because then the person is just complaining!
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