"You Don't Own Me", A Feminist Anthem with Civil Rights Roots

[Ohiogal]

...is all about empathy.

There's a certain kind of song you just want to crank up after a bad breakup or a rough day at work. In 1963, a young singer renowned for a hit about getting ditched at a party unleashed just such an anthem.

Lesley Gore's coolly mutinous "You Don't Own Me" is richly scored, building from a minor-key dirge in the verses to a spirited chorus. The 1963 hit reframed the 17-year-old Gore as a confident chanteuse, rather than the pert pop princess then best-known for such bubblegum hits as "It's My Party" and "Judy's Turn To Cry." Her earlier songs had mostly concerned boys — getting dumped by boys, getting approval from boys, bragging about the boys who liked her.

In an interview on WHYY's Fresh Air in 1991, Gore recalled when "You Don't Own Me" first came to her attention. "At the time, I know I chose it because I know I liked the strength in the lyric," she told host Terry Gross. "But, for me, it was not a song about being a woman. It was about being a person, and what was involved with that. Of course, it got picked up as an anthem for women, which makes me very proud."

https://www.npr.org/2019/06/26/735819094/lesley-gore-you-dont-own-me-american-anthem

[lark]

1. I used to cry when I heard this song.

I cried with sadness for how young women were treated and with joy that she's saying "no more", that she will "live my life however I want" (not sure if that's the right word, but think it is).

[virgogal]

2. I was in my 30s in those years

and have always been treated quite well.

[Malmsy]

3. That story was amazing. I heard it at home, and had to stop what I was

doing to listen.

Hearing the song on A Handmaid's Tale was eerie.

[canetoad]

4. I came upon this clip the other day

Reminded me that it would be worth re-watching the movie.