Bereavement
Related: About this forumIn Memorium - my father passed lateTuesday PM
Daniel Edward Hruskoci
2/6/1943 - 3/10/2026
Father of three, grandfather of nine.
A man who lived everyday for his family and friends with great passion and empathy.
It has been almost 5 and 1/2 years since my mom passed at the height of the COVID-19 restrictions and nearly 5 years to the day that he survived a massive stroke with miraculous lack of loss of function or paralysis. He then survived bladder cancer, sepsis (twice), a series of falls that culminated in a broken hip and replacement surgery. In the end, he was afflicted with progresive dementia and kidney failure.
I was able to be with him as he passed and the last words he heard were "I love you dad." That will stay with me the rest of my life as much as his example in how to be a man, a husband, a father and a friend. I miss him already and always will, but in my mind (even if no where else) he reunited with my mother and that image brings a rueful smile to my face.
One last time, with feeling - I love you dad!
spooky3
(38,845 posts)Irish_Dem
(82,227 posts)Your dad sounds like a wonderful man.
He will always be with you.
UpInArms
(55,319 posts)💐🕯️
SheltieLover
(81,619 posts)What a lovely tribute to your dear dad.
greatauntoftriplets
(179,311 posts)marked50
(1,592 posts)mwmisses4289
(4,669 posts)c-rational
(3,221 posts)2naSalit
(103,803 posts)cachukis
(4,065 posts)CentralMass
(16,994 posts)livetohike
(24,402 posts)your Father. May every good memory and the stories youll tell always comfort you
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niyad
(133,932 posts)Please know that your DU family is here for you. Lean as hard as you need.
3catwoman3
(29,758 posts)MacKasey
(1,532 posts)Your father and mother will be with you always !
I know my are!
ancianita
(43,327 posts)Your dad and mom will be with you always.
JMCKUSICK
(6,584 posts)Your reverence for this man is plain to see, How wonderful that must be. Thank you for celebrating him with us.
God Speed
Grim Chieftain
(1,996 posts)I trust his memory will be a blessing.
You are in my thoughts, friend.
HeartsCanHope
(1,752 posts)Love and light to you and your family as you mourn your father. I will thinking of you all.
Faux pas
(16,522 posts)for all who knew and loved him. Sending love and healing vibes ✨
gopiscrap
(24,777 posts)it is never easy to lose a loved. May you be granted peace in the assuredness of the bond you had with him! Peace Mike C
FrankTC
(265 posts)Beautiful and moving.
LoisB
(13,399 posts)calimary
(90,704 posts)Just always cherish those memories that will mean more and more as each day passes. And if you find some photos of those happier times, hang em up so everybody can appreciate them.
As I age, there are more and more moments when I find myself thinking thatll be me, some day.
stage left
(3,349 posts)highplainsdem
(63,014 posts)I don't doubt that they are reunited, and healthy and young again. And I believe that not because of any religion's teachings, but because of personal stories I've heard from people in grief support groups.
MustLoveBeagles
(17,174 posts)May his memory be a blessing.
underpants
(197,106 posts)Im sorry for your loss. Sounds like his lifes work was completed and successful with you.
Permanut
(8,557 posts)mzmolly
(52,853 posts)Enter stage left
(4,634 posts)I still miss him every day. He was only 63.
Your post really hit me hard, because, today, March 12th is his birthday. He'd have been 104 today
Figarosmom
(13,218 posts)democrank
(12,670 posts)Im sorry for your loss.
OAITW r.2.0
(32,536 posts)I worked on my Dad in 76, but had no last communication as he had a fatal MI.
Trueblue Texan
(4,599 posts)But I am joyful for the reunion in your mind and heart. Peace and healing, Moostache.
slightlv
(7,933 posts)you gave us a wonderful image not only of your father, but of your relationship with him. I lost my Mom last year at New Years. The ache doesn't go away, it seems... but each day makes it a little easier to handle. So does late night "talks with Mom"... when I'm in bed, tossing and turning because of some body ache or pain she and I shared, or worries for the future... especially now. Mom absolutely detested trump. I still say she died when she did because she refused to live under his reign again. So, late at night, when I feel on the edge of despair or a nervous breakdown, I talk it out with Mom. I find being quiet and still after one of these "conversations" I can hear Mom talking back to me, instinctively. May the life and conversations you had with your father fill your days with happiness of those memories, and be the strength you may need at times.
SimplyHadEnough
(89 posts)Dear_Prudence
(1,192 posts)I am so sorry for your loss.
live love laugh
(16,467 posts)Bayard
(30,228 posts)But glad you could be there with him when he passed.
Deuxcents
(27,635 posts)area51
(12,747 posts)mgardener
(2,395 posts)My condolences on your loss.