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My brother recently passed (Original Post) libodem May 2013 OP
I need to try it again libodem May 2013 #1
Here we go libodem May 2013 #2
So sorry for your family. I like the hat. He looks like a character. applegrove May 2013 #5
I have to leave now to go pick up his ashes libodem May 2013 #3
he looks so young. i am terribly sorry auntAgonist May 2013 #7
libodem, I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words. ((hug)).. Little Star May 2013 #4
I'm so very sorry libodem. polly7 May 2013 #6
Thank you all my friends libodem May 2013 #8
thinking of you and wanting you auntAgonist May 2013 #9
I'm sorry for the loss of your brother....my livetohike May 2013 #10
He did libodem May 2013 #11
I'm having a little trouble with the pictures libodem May 2013 #12
Picture libodem May 2013 #13
What a beautiful poem. NCarolinawoman May 2013 #14
and let me add.... NCarolinawoman May 2013 #15
Thank you libodem May 2013 #17
It was cut out of the New Yorker libodem May 2013 #16

Little Star

(17,055 posts)
4. libodem, I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words. ((hug))..
Thu May 16, 2013, 12:57 PM
May 2013

He was a nice looking fellow with a great smile.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
6. I'm so very sorry libodem.
Thu May 16, 2013, 01:26 PM
May 2013

What a handsome, thoughtful looking man your Boo Boo was. Wishing you strength, and the comfort of family and friends.

libodem

(19,288 posts)
8. Thank you all my friends
Thu May 16, 2013, 11:45 PM
May 2013

That is an old picture of him. I just got home from a long day. I needed to spend some time with my nephew. I meant to post his picture with a poem I found but I was gone all day. Thank you for all the kind thoughts.

auntAgonist

(17,257 posts)
9. thinking of you and wanting you
Fri May 17, 2013, 05:33 PM
May 2013

to know that (sadly) you are welcome here and will find some much needed support.

Kesha

livetohike

(22,969 posts)
10. I'm sorry for the loss of your brother....my
Sat May 18, 2013, 09:32 PM
May 2013

sympathy to you and the family and all who knew and loved him. He looks like a person who had many friends

libodem

(19,288 posts)
12. I'm having a little trouble with the pictures
Sun May 19, 2013, 10:45 AM
May 2013

I had three of the same one on. imgur and erased one. Duh. Must have been the one I'd put here. Darn it. Here is a childhood shot. [img][/img]

libodem

(19,288 posts)
13. Picture
Sun May 19, 2013, 11:02 AM
May 2013

[img][/img]

Poem:

Perfection Wasted
And another regrettable thing about death
is the ceasing of your own brand of magic,
which took a whole lifetime to develop an market-
the quips, the witticisims, the slant
adjusted to just a few, those loved ones nearest
the lip of the stage, their soft faces blanched
in the glow, their laughter close to tears,
their tears confused with their diamond earrings,
their warm pooled breath in and out with your heartbeat,
their response and your performance twinned.
The jokes over the phone. The memories packed
in the rapid-access file. The whole act.
Who will do it again? That's it: no one;
imitators and descendants aren't the same.

-John Updike

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