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kozar

(2,910 posts)
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 10:50 AM Apr 2022

What I'm learning since,

https://imgur.com/a/W5v3tsZ


Someone in our campground continues to call police. There has been exactly 4 people in last 3 months who have knocked on door and helped LilBit and I. But, 4 wellness checks from cops. They come in , check LilBit, camper is clean, LilBit is happy, and they leave.
I actually told the police last night, you need to go to the person who is calling you and talk to them!! I’m struggling a bit, but I take care of my daughter, You guys should know this by now.
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What I'm learning since, (Original Post) kozar Apr 2022 OP
*sigh* I'm so sorry, kozar. dixiechiken1 Apr 2022 #1
The one constant in life: there's always gonna be a jerk. CrispyQ Apr 2022 #2
Jerks abound. The cops probably know by now blm Apr 2022 #3
I'm backing this as well stopdiggin Apr 2022 #4
I think I know but, kozar Apr 2022 #5
I'm so sorry... onecaliberal Apr 2022 #6
Try to ignore whatever low life is persecuting you. I know it's hard, but the cops have to follow up Karadeniz Apr 2022 #7
Sending digital hugs. alwaysinasnit Apr 2022 #8
So sorry for this. There is no end to some deplorables. Take care kozer Evolve Dammit Apr 2022 #9
what is their motivation for calling the cops Skittles Apr 2022 #10
Tuff weekend but, kozar Apr 2022 #11

CrispyQ

(38,444 posts)
2. The one constant in life: there's always gonna be a jerk.
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 11:00 AM
Apr 2022

You handled it well. I hope the struggle is getting easier.

stopdiggin

(12,930 posts)
4. I'm backing this as well
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 11:16 AM
Apr 2022

Cops get tired of this sh*t as well. And (if you have the energy, and wherewithal) you might approach protective services yourself and explain that you have a case of harassment on your hands. There might well be a sympathetic ear in that office as well.

Peace. Sorry you're going through this.

kozar

(2,910 posts)
5. I think I know but,
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 11:20 AM
Apr 2022

Really won’t give her time of day. It’s the person who is the “ perfect” Christian, who sings only hymns at karaoke and also shot down the thought when MrsK passed and campground wanted to a memorial service. She said, “ that’s his family’s job, not ours”. I po’d her once,, she asked me to sing a duet with her. She is trained in opera, I told her, we can’t sing that song on technicals, you need to sing the song with your heart, not your brain.
Yeah I’m rambling, but I believe I know who is calling cops.

Karadeniz

(23,454 posts)
7. Try to ignore whatever low life is persecuting you. I know it's hard, but the cops have to follow up
Sat Apr 9, 2022, 12:43 PM
Apr 2022

on complaints, even after they've learned they're from a loose screw. The suggestion that they go to the caller is a good one.

kozar

(2,910 posts)
11. Tuff weekend but,
Sun Apr 10, 2022, 03:29 PM
Apr 2022

I am figuring me out. The person calling the police is a female. The two people in the campground were knocking on my door and wanting to talk to me are men.
I have been with a therapist for the last 15 years, I know I react better to a female therapist. For whatever reason. The men are coming in here and going all manly man on me. I don’t react to that well reminds me of my father, that’s another story.

Epiphany last night, while I was laying in bed. I believe I’m missing a female voice in my life. Even just a friend.

KozandLilBit

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