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JRLeft

(7,010 posts)
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 12:51 AM Dec 2015

My father tried to argue with me over religion. I told him

the Bible justifies rape and slavery. He said it didn't. I read several verses to him and then he mentioned a 3rd world country would rise up and control the world. I laughed and said how long will we reside in the last days? It's been thousands of years.

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My father tried to argue with me over religion. I told him (Original Post) JRLeft Dec 2015 OP
My sympathies. beam me up scottie Dec 2015 #1
He truly believes, why because he was raised to believe it. JRLeft Dec 2015 #2
I think some people are too frightened to question its authority. beam me up scottie Dec 2015 #3
No, he doesn't. He believes in science, but he tried to say JRLeft Dec 2015 #4
Exactly! beam me up scottie Dec 2015 #5
LMFAO, the truth their God ignores them everyday. JRLeft Dec 2015 #6
If recovering is proof of, is dieing proof against? Lordquinton Dec 2015 #12
They would just say that means they're going to the afterlife. JRLeft Dec 2015 #14
So god didn't love them enough to save them? Lordquinton Dec 2015 #15
God probably uses a lotto system to pick and choose. JRLeft Dec 2015 #16
Here I thought God doesn't play dice with the universe Lordquinton Dec 2015 #17
There is some pretty weird shit in the bible. progressoid Dec 2015 #7
LMFAO, pretty perverted shit in there. JRLeft Dec 2015 #8
Oh, that's nothing. Act_of_Reparation Dec 2015 #9
At least mine never tried to argue Bible with me. SusanCalvin Dec 2015 #10
Mine said the same thing. JRLeft Dec 2015 #11
I think Dad was scared of dying. SusanCalvin Dec 2015 #13
My Mom clings to all sorts of unorthodox magical thinking: lindysalsagal Dec 2015 #18
"she needs her voodoo to get through the day" amuse bouche Dec 2015 #19
You could bring up Revelation 7 and 14 Freelancer Dec 2015 #20
 

JRLeft

(7,010 posts)
2. He truly believes, why because he was raised to believe it.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 08:41 AM
Dec 2015

No matter how many ridiculous verses there are in the bible believers will believe the nonsense in the book of fables.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
3. I think some people are too frightened to question its authority.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 08:46 AM
Dec 2015

It brings them comfort and the thought of letting go and figuring it out on their own terrifies them.

I don't have any advice but I do hope he doesn't judge you for being a freethinker.

 

JRLeft

(7,010 posts)
4. No, he doesn't. He believes in science, but he tried to say
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 08:53 AM
Dec 2015

hasn't proven there is no good; which is true, but science does believe in peer review. By the way, no one has proven one exist either. The response we get is you have to have faith.

They use someone recovering from terminal cancer as a reason to believe.

We wonder about all of the other times when nothing happens. The response it's all part of God's plan. Come the fuck on.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
5. Exactly!
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 09:02 AM
Dec 2015

Like the story about the patient whose cancer went into remission or the premature infant who survived against the odds - it's a miracle! Jesus answered our prayers!

What about all of the people who didn't make it? Were they not worthy of intercession?

 

JRLeft

(7,010 posts)
6. LMFAO, the truth their God ignores them everyday.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 09:16 AM
Dec 2015

Our bodies heal ourselves sometimes, but most of the time it's science that heals. Believers will say God healed them. No he didn't the Dr. did.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
12. If recovering is proof of, is dieing proof against?
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 08:37 PM
Dec 2015

If so then we have real numbers to compare. And how do we compare rising recovery rates over time vs a drop in belief?

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
15. So god didn't love them enough to save them?
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 11:44 PM
Dec 2015

Or is this more of the plan that makes less sense than random chance?

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
17. Here I thought God doesn't play dice with the universe
Sat Dec 12, 2015, 02:03 AM
Dec 2015

No wonder theology is such a high level subject, so confusing.

progressoid

(50,784 posts)
7. There is some pretty weird shit in the bible.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 11:50 AM
Dec 2015

A couple years ago, a couple guys on a local morning radio show were laughing at what believers ignore in the bible (sex and violence etc). Their sports guy was a serious Catholic. And like many believers, had no idea what was actually in the bible.

So I called in to and told them to look up Ezekiel 23:20:

There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses.

The religious sports guy refused to believe it was in the bible because he didn't learn that in Sunday School!

About a year later he transferred to a different station.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
9. Oh, that's nothing.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 03:43 PM
Dec 2015

In 1 Samuel 5-6, the Philistines capture the Ark of the Covenant and take to the temple of Dagon in Ashdod. The Philistines place the Ark beside the statue of Dagon, and when they return in the morning they find the statue has toppled over, face-first, onto the floor. The Philistines think little of it and return Dagon to his standing position. The next morning, the statue has fallen again. This time, the statue breaks into several pieces. God's subtlety is lost on the Philistines, however, so he moved to more drastic measures: he curses the people of Ashdod with mice and hemorrhoids (or tumors).

Understandably distressed, the Philistines ask how to make things right with such an infantile deity. The answer: offer up 5 golden hemorrhoids and 5 golden mice, and return the Ark to the Israelites posthaste.

SusanCalvin

(6,592 posts)
10. At least mine never tried to argue Bible with me.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 06:06 PM
Dec 2015

Last edited Fri Dec 11, 2015, 08:55 PM - Edit history (1)

His basic argument was I'd believe when I was dying.

 

JRLeft

(7,010 posts)
11. Mine said the same thing.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 08:02 PM
Dec 2015

Why do people say oh God when they are in pain or dying. It's a figure of speech.

SusanCalvin

(6,592 posts)
13. I think Dad was scared of dying.
Fri Dec 11, 2015, 08:58 PM
Dec 2015

Well, I'm scared of dying in pain and helplessness. But that doesn't mean I believe in an imaginary friend.

lindysalsagal

(22,411 posts)
18. My Mom clings to all sorts of unorthodox magical thinking:
Sat Dec 12, 2015, 12:42 PM
Dec 2015

None of it traditional or institutional, but she needs her voodoo to get through the day. I doubt she has any consiousness of the real unconscious basis for these needs: Could have something to do with being beaten by her mother and big brother, and ignored by her father as a child.....

Deep-seated childhood insecurity can install any number of irrational ideas into an otherwise critically thinking person.

When I scoff, she scoff, back. She needs it.

amuse bouche

(3,665 posts)
19. "she needs her voodoo to get through the day"
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 03:58 PM
Dec 2015

I am anti-theist to the bone. I was railing against some religious crap one day and one of my sons said,
Mom, ya... they are ridiculous but they would go crazy if they didn't hang onto it

Ok sweetie, you have a point, but to me, they already are crazy

In other words, I believe people would be better off if they would just confront their demons, openly and honestly.Then they can move on. It really isn't the end of the world

Freelancer

(2,107 posts)
20. You could bring up Revelation 7 and 14
Sat Dec 19, 2015, 11:38 PM
Dec 2015

The Christian Bible clearly says that only 144,000 will get into heaven. Sure, every Christian denomination dances around it, but it's explicitly in there. So... you can ask your dad whether, by his Sunday School logic, it doesn't make more sense for him to get in tight with the devil, since, according to his church, everyone he's ever known is either in, or going-to hell. If he became a demon of some authority, he might be able to get granny into a nice condo on shore of the burning lake.

I'm imagining that conversation... "Dad -- if you won't become a demon for your own sake, then do it for granny!"
LOL!

Clearly, this is not remotely real. It's our brains playing games of cause and effect with the ghosts of the pleistocene. It can be hilarious, though.

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