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Two recent stories in the news:
Confronting the legacy of Genocide: Addressing the Impacts of American Indian Boarding Schools
...they had this message verbally beaten into them: Youre here because your parents dont love you. Thats why youre here. And thats why theyre not coming to get you.
So now you get out when youre 18. You havent had a home, your mom and dad, a loving, nurturing environment to raise you. And you have this idea in your head, Youre not loved; youre not wanted; everything about you is devilish.
You can tell them, Mom and Dad did love you, but that was federal policy. They had no choice, you had to go. You can tell them that until you are blue in the face, but that other message is too firmly implanted.
Thats one of the saddest, most heartbreaking things Ive witnessed from survivors.
I hear how difficult it is for some survivors to even say, I love you. They cant say I love you to their own children its too difficult because of what mentally and physically beaten into them.
( http://lastrealindians.com/confronting-the-legacy-of-genocide-addressing-the-impacts-of-american-indian-boarding-schools/)