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elleng

(136,072 posts)
Wed May 5, 2021, 12:09 AM May 2021

Question, re: 'ancestry' etc.

Want to learn my mother's birth, marriage and death dates; she died when I was 7 or 8, Dad remarried several years later and brother Billy and I were adopted; NYS 'obliterated' name/existence of birth-mother on my/our 'new' birth certificates (after adoption.)

Will 'ancestry' places include facts about my birth mother, in spite of NYState's practice? and which of several 'ancestry' places better (and less expensive) than others?

Thanks

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SergeStorms

(19,312 posts)
4. Ancestry.com
Wed May 5, 2021, 12:19 AM
May 2021

will give you all pertinent records on file. As long as you know her full maiden name, and perhaps her mother and father's full name. It's amazing the number of records they have in their data banks. The plus is you can find out within a very reliable percentage where your ancestors hailed from originally. Hope that helps.

Buckeye_Democrat

(15,042 posts)
6. NY should have her death certificate, I'd think.
Wed May 5, 2021, 12:22 AM
May 2021

That should include her birth date and possibly the names of her parents too.

And they probably have a record of her marriage certificate too.

Some of my ancestors lived in New York back in the 1600's when it was a colony, so I've never looked up those kinds of records there myself. But they surely have all of those types of records going back to at least the early 1900's like many other states.

Irish_Dem

(57,579 posts)
7. There should be records of your mother's birth, marriage, death certificates
Wed May 5, 2021, 12:33 AM
May 2021

online at Ancestry. The state of NY should have the records as well.

Your OBC (Original Birth Certificate) may be available as well.
In some states you can petition to get the OBC.

If you PM me, I will be happy to look up these records for you if they are available.
I am on Ancestry all the time. I do adoption searches as a volunteer researcher.

I would be glad to help you. Shouldn't take long to get some records for you.
Or whatever information you are looking for.

Irish_Dem

(57,579 posts)
10. Or if you would like to do it yourself I can tell you how to find records.
Wed May 5, 2021, 12:49 AM
May 2021

I would recommend Ancestry.com.

They have the most online records that are easy to find.
Family Search has a huge data base as well.

If you would like to connect to your mother's family, you might want to consider DNA testing at Ancestry.

Buckeye_Democrat

(15,042 posts)
11. Agree about Ancestry.
Wed May 5, 2021, 12:59 AM
May 2021

I don't have a subscription with them anymore, which is a bit expensive, but their collections are impressive. Better than the LDS (FamilySearch) overall, imo.

And the submitted family trees seemed more accurate too, in general. I found several INSANE family tree submissions to the LDS years ago, back in the days when I'd actually visit some LDS libraries.

EDIT:
Ancestry's DNA analysis seems the most accurate too. I didn't really NEED to do it to resolve any mysteries, but they confirmed my paper trails which pointed to origins from the British Isles.

Irish_Dem

(57,579 posts)
12. Yes, right now Ancestry has the biggest data base and most user friendly document interface.
Wed May 5, 2021, 08:57 AM
May 2021

I volunteer to conduct DNA adoption searches, using DNA results and genealogical documents to find birth parents, grandparents etc. It is a complicated process, but Ancestry makes it much easier with the way their site is set up.

Some of the trees on Ancestry can be really crazy trees. I just shake my head. In my work, information needs to be exact, checked and double checked. So I can start cussing up a storm when I see crap trees.

Years ago when commercial DNA genealogy sites began to spring up the ethnicity break down was pretty sketchy.
This is because not enough people had DNA tested to find comparison groups. But as more and more people are DNA testing we are getting better norming groups.

Yes I think it is safe to say your ancestors are from the British Isles.

Buckeye_Democrat

(15,042 posts)
9. You might have online access to a free library version...
Wed May 5, 2021, 12:41 AM
May 2021

... of Ancestry.com too.

My metro library used to only allow access to their library edition of Ancestry in-person, but they allow remote access now because of the pandemic. I just need to type my library card number to use it.

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