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Jilly_in_VA

(10,938 posts)
Mon Jan 24, 2022, 12:39 PM Jan 2022

Lesbian Sues U.S. Army and Air Force Over Boss' Demand She Grow Her Hair and Wear Makeup

For nearly 14 years, Tech. Sgt. Kristin M. Kingrey has served her country as a member of the West Virginia Air National Guard. Now Kingrey, a 37-year-old lesbian, is suing the Army and Air Force, claiming a senior male leader said she should grow her hair, wear makeup, “and ultimately appear more feminine,” or prepare to face the negative professional consequences.

Kingrey told The Daily Beast that after the remarks were made a job she had successfully applied for was suddenly withdrawn, and the Guard also refused to hire her for a position she was qualified for, “despite her satisfactory performance as a federal employee,” as her lawsuit, filed in a federal court, states.

When the comment was allegedly made, it was not the first time. “From 2016 to 2018, I was constantly being pulled into my seniors’ offices being told my hair was out of regs (non-regulation),” Kingrey told The Daily Beast. “It crossed a line into harassment, and I carried on my person a copy of our regulations in regards to female hair length because I was not breaking any rules.”

Kingrey, from Charleston, West Virginia, believes that sexism and homophobia are key parts of her case—she was signaled out as a woman, and a lesbian woman specifically. Hers comports to a stereotypical lesbian appearance, she says, and her boss wanted her appearance to be more conventionally “feminine.”

The lawsuit, filed on Nov. 23 last year, claims Kingrey was subject to “continued harassment, discrimination, and retaliation based upon her sex—including her sexual orientation and perceived gender nonconformity.”

https://www.thedailybeast.com/lesbian-sues-us-army-and-air-force-over-bosss-demand-she-grow-her-hair-and-wear-makeup?ref=home

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Lesbian Sues U.S. Army and Air Force Over Boss' Demand She Grow Her Hair and Wear Makeup (Original Post) Jilly_in_VA Jan 2022 OP
I hope she wins this suit wackadoo wabbit Jan 2022 #1
A couple of my straight female friends Jilly_in_VA Jan 2022 #2
Republican Pastors like John Hagee clearly want to hurt the gay rights movement. endinequalitynow May 2022 #3
What does that Jilly_in_VA May 2022 #4

wackadoo wabbit

(1,217 posts)
1. I hope she wins this suit
Mon Jan 24, 2022, 04:44 PM
Jan 2022

I'm a straight woman, and I haven't worn makeup for approximately a half a century. The idea that women have to wear makeup is misogynistic and outdated. It's way past time this belief is retired.

Jilly_in_VA

(10,938 posts)
2. A couple of my straight female friends
Mon Jan 24, 2022, 05:29 PM
Jan 2022

wear their hair just about that short. I mean, WTF? I think she's being harassed just because she's lesbian.

endinequalitynow

(33 posts)
3. Republican Pastors like John Hagee clearly want to hurt the gay rights movement.
Mon May 9, 2022, 02:44 PM
May 2022
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/jeigwWURoX4 , Look how much republican pastor John Hagee hates gay rights. His homophobia is a disgrace to religion.
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