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Related: About this forummy poor old man.
damn do i hate this part. atm, my buddy, biff, has a raging bladder infection, the symptoms of which i took for his age setting in.
hell b 13 soon. hes been having trouble getting around for the last few mos. when he started having accidents, i figured that was the reason. hes always been good that way.
then sunday night he started making little bloody puddles and pacing around the house.
got him to the vet, needed fluids, on abs, feeling better, but
he was due for sr wellness bloodwork, so we did the panel.
his liver numbers r through the roof. doc wanted a couple more tests that they can do on the same sample. will get those results tomorrow.
when he goes for the follow up in 10 days, well do an ultrasound, but doc is worried.
so am i. hes had tumors removed already.
damn damn damn. hes just been the best dog. tied for all time best dog ive had w my beloved puddy, a white boxer w selective hearing who was the nanny when my kids were small. i guess i have to give her to the edge, cuz her job sure was harder than this guys, even w his 5 yrs of service as a therapy dog. but hes just been the goodest of good boys.
im not ready for this.
Walleye
(37,255 posts)mopinko
(72,132 posts)the vet was a bit hesitant about the costs. me- i got 99 problems, money aint 1 of them. he gets what he needs.
CousinIT
(10,763 posts)I hope your boy gets better but if not...I hope you will be beside him while he slips over the rainbow bridge. That is the last act of love - we take on their suffering so they don't have to anymore.
mopinko
(72,132 posts)ppl who do that should b blackballed from owning dogs.
dwp6577
(110 posts)We've have outlived our share of dogs, and pay extra to have the vet come to our home and take care of all end of life needs. Seems to make everyone feel more comfortable and certainly for me. sympathies!
Pets understand/love seemingly more than humans
hlthe2b
(107,541 posts)for her osteoarthritis, she has slowed down considerably and is guarding against me palpating the sore joints. She still manages our pre-dawn walks around the lake at the dog park with our dog-walking friends, but it is getting tougher. Coming upstairs is increasingly harder but she still manages.
How hard it is to have them age faster than we do, but we treasure every day.
mopinko
(72,132 posts)almost every dog ive had has made it to a ripe old age.
he rly hates the stairs. hes a bully, so hes top heavy. going down is rly awkward. i just put carpet runners on the stairs for him. hes got nails like bearclaws that easily get long enough to get in the way. hes gotten better about letting me take care of them tho. (i gave up on the pet tools. just use my dremel. much faster.)
le sigh. im already grieving the happy go lucky young fella he was. i always do this. i just hate it.
sinkingfeeling
(53,661 posts)Ziggysmom
(3,694 posts)for a Mama. Unfortunately grief is the price of love. Sending healing thoughts and prayers that he does not have more tumors.
mopinko
(72,132 posts)fingers crossed.
HeartsCanHope
(773 posts)biophile
(548 posts)https://www.kiplingsociety.co.uk/poem/poems_dog.htm
I dont know if these links will work but the name of the poem is The Power of the Dog.
😢
mopinko
(72,132 posts)yeah, y do we? i have to say, tho, that theyve been worth the trouble and the tears.
1 reason i have had more than 1 at a time since ive had my own place. i have 2 other dogs to lick sway my tears when the day comes.
biophile
(548 posts)I think his question was rhetorical- he clearly knew why we give our hearts to dogs ❤️
Joinfortmill
(16,992 posts)bluboid
(737 posts)SheltieLover
(61,338 posts)I know, it's tough when they get old...
Figarosmom
(3,987 posts)Those times in our life that's
A real bitch.
skylucy
(3,890 posts)LoisB
(9,230 posts)surfered
(4,547 posts)Wicked Blue
(6,994 posts)Just lost my own dog and I know how agonizing it can be.
I hope with all my heart that your Very Good Boy gets over this and is able to enjoy more time with you.
StarryNite
(11,142 posts)They say dogs can read our emotions and you want him to feel hope through your hope. Our son's dog at 16 was diagnosed with kidney disease. We all pitched in and researched like crazy what kind of diet is best and how to help her in numerous ways. She wound up having to be euthanized 10 months later when she was 17.5 years old. She had a lot of great days during that time and some days not so great. But over all her life quality was good until the end. And when the time came it wasn't because of her kidneys, it was her joints.
Sending love and light to your pup.
mountain grammy
(27,473 posts)It stinks Like most of us Ive been through it and my heart goes out to you.
Your post reminded me of my wonderful white boxer who was my nanny from one year old until I was 11. Best dog. ❤️
mgardener
(1,938 posts)Is getting near the end too.
His liver function were worse on Monday.
We are keeping him comfortable.
And loving him to bits.
It is so hard, isn't it?
Evolve Dammit
(19,622 posts)MLAA
(18,814 posts)Fla Dem
(26,158 posts)If he can be cured of his current situation and live pain free, I will be so happy for you both.
But that isn't always the way it ends up.
We have loved and cared for them and at some point, it's time to let them go so they no longer suffer.
It's tough, I know. My heart goes out to you and Biff.
highplainsdem
(53,448 posts)mercuryblues
(15,378 posts)Have a hug
niyad
(121,637 posts)wendyb-NC
(3,963 posts)Sending good vibes and lifting you both up in prayer. Peace.