Opinion Social media is devastating teens' mental health. Here's what parents can do - Wen, WaPo

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If we are serious about addressing the alarming worsening of teens’ mental health, we must reduce their social media use. The connection is well-established. Abundant research has linked depression and self-harm to frequency of social media use. And a new study from the American Psychological Association shows that cutting back helps teens feel better. Companies are aware of this; Facebook executive-turned-whistleblower Frances Haugen revealed that the company’s own research found that use of their platforms was linked to anxiety, depression and body image issues in teens.

Federal health data highlight why this is so crucial. In 2021, 42 percent of high school students reported feeling so sad or hopeless almost every day for at least two weeks that they stopped doing their usual activities. The crisis is particularly pronounced in girls; nearly 3 in 5 teen girls reported persistent feelings of sadness, an increase of over 60 percent since 2011.

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The trouble with online interactions is also what they are replacing. A 2022 survey found that average daily screen use increased further during the pandemic and is now more than 5½ hours among children ages 8 to 12 and a whopping 8 hours and 39 minutes for teens ages 13 to 18. That’s time that previously was spent engaging in-person relationships and on healthier activities such as playing outside, sports and sleep.

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Given the magnitude of the problem, solving it might seem daunting for parents. Nevertheless, here are four steps they can take:

Create spaces free from screens.

Talk to kids and make a plan with them.

Help teens approach technology mindfully.

Delay social media use.


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[SharonClark]

1. We had this conversation after dinner just yesterday.

My niece, a Nurse Practitioner who works with patients with mental health issues, said the same thing. She and her husband raised two happy, healthy, intelligent kids who never spent much time on social media.

She attributes it to peer pressure which is made 100x worse by social media and influencers. She also thinks children should not have access to their phones while in class, that many parents are in over their heads, that many young people don’t understand the concept of privacy, and children do not have enough healthy peer relationships.

It must be hard to parent today.